What is wrong with me?
By comgurus
@comgurus (11)
July 23, 2007 1:21am CST
I have this girl i choose to love but she said she can't love me back. She siad we could be freinds but we should forget about love affair. in my mind, that is immpossible. if i don't want to date u what are we doing together. I am a busy man, if a girl want to take my time, she shuold be the one that i love. the one that will mother my kids. i have hang arround with many girls in the past. Now i need to create my family, and what this girl want is just freinds.
I try to be her freind as she said but my mind can't go off loving her. i let her know that it will be better if we can be freinds fro a far. that is, we don't see each other. She said that is the lasting she will do. she said i want to send her away because she refused to date me.
that is not true. the truth is. she is purposely hurting my emotion and pretending as if she does not know. I let her know what i laways go through realizing that she can't love me back, she should find feeling to love me.
If i plane never to see her again, that day she come and check on me. i cant look into her eyes and tell her to get out of my life but her present is hurting me and always take my time, thinking about the situation.
she has to go. i don't know how. the tougth of her make me want to hug her. remebring her smile scares me to make her feel bad. i know i love her but it more dagerouse if she does'n love me back becase i will dia of emotional pain.
5 responses
@MercedesGA (26)
• Philippines
25 Jul 07
We are afraid to fall inlove,for we are afraid to get hurt..but when we finally fall, do you know what's the first thing we are afraid of? its loosing "the one" we fell in love with..
@rexiemay (401)
• Philippines
24 Jul 07
it hurts a lot to love someone who wouldnt love us back or who couldnt return the love we are giving them. however, dont ever think that you are less of a person or that something is missing in you. letting her go is the best way to do if she is constantly hurting you. remember let her go but dont let the love go. there is someone who is really for you. just be patient in waiting for that wonderful person who would love you unconditionally.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
23 Jul 07
This is a very simple case. This girl likes very much that you fell in love with her, and she wants you keep as a fan. She will play with you if you let her do it. I suggest you to keep your heart for somebody else, who would give hers back to you too.
YOu will not never be happy with this girls. Just forget about her, let her go out from your life as soon as possible.
@mestr12 (226)
• Philippines
23 Jul 07
There is nothing wrong with you, comgurus. You are presently hurting from your loved one's rejection. I do agree with you that it is best to stay away from her in order that you can heal your broken heart. Just immersed yourself in your work and surround yourself with your other friends. One day you will be able to find someone who is truly meant for you. :)
@xenna1986 (228)
• Philippines
23 Jul 07
certainly, there is nothing wrong with you. We are actually on the same road for I too have experienced the way you had. Of course it hurts a lot,but you have to be reminded that everything happens for a reason.People come and go into our lives. This time, your girl leaves you.. BE patient on waiting for the best girl intended to be yoiur liefetime partner will come along in God's perfect time.
Go out and make friends..That perfetc girl might be among them.
