if you break up with your lover,would you wish have a good life in future?

Dealing with a broken heart is tough, but the best thing you can do for your self and your ex is to just forgive and go on..Sometimes it isn't easy, especially if you have been together for a long time, but in the end, you will have peace..:)

You could always reverse this, put it into a different perspective, wish that your lover would not be so hardhearted, and that he would become a nicer person so that he would have a nice life. You see if you wish someone ill, it not only affects him, it affects his family as well who might depend on him for their living, so if he loses his job, and gets demoted, then they do not have that much money coming into the family. Also he might retaliate his misfortune unto them and that is not right.

Look at the initial moments you atke the oath taht you won't love anyone any more. you make a promise that you won't fall in l;ove also. but it actually cahnges with time. time is a great healer and you try to learn that life is not that all bad. may be we find it really hard to believe anyone later.

I think this is just the beginning of the breakup so there are hard feelings..but after awhile..the feelings will be gone....When I was younger..I broke up with my girlfriend..I had the same feelings but after so many years I would think of her and how she would be like with her new family, children and all and wish her well...