Do you mind or you dont mind!
By micaella
@micaella (396)
Philippines
July 23, 2007 6:53am CST
Just for married woman, or for woman who is in relationship...
Do you mind or you wont mind if some girls gave your hub or boyfriend a chain? thoug it is a simple thing, you wont mind if some girls looks like taking care of ur hubs or bfs cellphones?
If in my case, I really feel bad and i really do mind but then as what as my husband said its just a chain but hes still doesnt have any plan to take it off from his mobile so i told him thats fin to me though but deep in my heart i really DO MIND!
What do you think you will be act to this situation?
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2 responses
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
23 Jul 07
It would depend on who the person who gave it to him was. My husband has many things that were gifts from our close friends that are female, and I don't mind this at all. The friendships that he has with them are known quantities to me, and not something that I have to worry about.
If it were someone I didn't know who gave my husband a gift, I would want to know more about that person. Still, unless he kept it a secret or refused to talk about the person who gave it to him, I still wouldn't mind. I guess I'm not really the jealous or suspicious type. If I didn't trust my husband, I would not have married him.
@micaella (396)
• Philippines
23 Jul 07
Hmm i guess ur right there friend, marry some one is not just because u love him it should be have TRUST to each other but as my experience now i never ever been introduced as a wife or to anyone of my hub in person. I never ever been tried to talk and saw any of his friends since we moved here in his own country... HIs parents are the one whos introducing me to his relatives...
So i dont know how to react about it.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
24 Jul 07
It sounds like your relationship is very different than mine. In fact, I don't think I would still be in a relationship with someone who never introduced me to the people who knew, or acted in the ways your husband does.
In my own relationship, we have many of the same friends, and I can't even think of many of his coworkers or other types of people he would associate with that I don't know or haven't at least heard a lot about. Our relationship is one in which everything is iin the open, and I wouldn't accept anything else.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
23 Jul 07
for me it really woulde depend who the person was. If it was from a friend as a gift I would be fine with it. If it was from a random women who my husband or I didnt know it would bother me a bit.
