Is it my wrong? I put my girlfriend into trouble.

If you love each other I don't think she minds the extra trouble :-)

Hey t1985, Unless your GF has expressed the fact that she is unhappy w/ you I wouldn't worry-she more than likely accepts you as you are.The fact that you're family is going through a crisis right now probably only worries her for your sake. Take heart t-everything will work it's self out |;) +'s |:)

Just have to be there for her. Dont know what you may have done to be in trouble but you may want to talk to her about it and get her point of veiw

If I may ask, what sort of bad trouble are you into? As if trouble is not bad enough but bad trouble. lol. It is understandable and lovely of you to spare your girlfriend of the agony. What does she think? Is she aware of the problem? Who knows, she may want to share your burden? If she is going to be in a difficult situation, may I suggest you leave her in safe hands, so that you can more relaxed and focused while attending to your problem. Just a suggestion. Wish you well.

its good u r cooncerned about ur friend,and i hope everything will be fine at u home too.

Just explain to her about your good intention to her. I guess that she will understand you for that. Understanding is very important to help you out.

a relationship isn't always a bed of roses. there will be thorns, too along the way. meaning, your girlfriend should be able to deal with everything that is happening around you and the relationship you two have. she knows you love her so much and she loves you, too. and you two should be able to accept the reality that there will always be so trouble in every relationship. and yours isn't an exception to that fact. just talk about issues there is in your life which will affect your relationship. talk about it together. it's always better to have open communication. anne

Hello tracy1985, are you a male? What are the problems faced by you and your family? Your narration of the situation is vague. I cannot think about any solutions, because the problem is not clear at all. Sorry for that. Thank you tracy.

How can anyone help you if we do not know what is going on. What type of trouble are you in? Should we tell you to dump your girlfriend I do not know. Now if the trouble is with the law then change your ways and do obey the law. If the trouble is money probles then sometimes it takes time to work through those. If the problem is with family I do not know what to tell you. Sorry I am no help.

In living this way it is difficult to know what to say.I would say if she loves you she would want to be with you no matter what.You need to talk with her,you love her she loves you you should be able to work things out,and understand what is going on around you.You should be able to support each other in all things,with both of you standing together.

I’m sorry that a lot of bad things had happened in your life and hope that they are get set very soon. Its good that you have your girl friend with you, who can support at your bad times. I don’t think you are troubling your girl friend. I think she will be more happy to support you rather than being away from you when you are in trouble.

Hello tracy1985, You don't have to think too much about the problem as it will make you feel more depressed and sad. You too, don't have to blame yourself for every thing bad that happened to you, your family and your girl friend. It is good that you let her stay with you. Unfortunately, we can't read or predict our bad luck and definitely, if we do, no one is going to make it happens. You shouldn't blame yourself for dragging her into your family problems.