what will you do when you find your wife escape with her boy friend?

I'm not sure what country you live in..but it's not "illegal" to have a relationship with someone else...unethical, tactless, perhaps..but not illegal!! Yes a marriage is a contract...but if your wife is "straying" there must be a reason..how many years have you been married ? Honestly, how have you been treating your wife lately ? I'm not saying this is "your" fault, but analyze a few of the questions I asked you and see if any of them "ring true". Sometimes when we step outside of the box..we can see things a bit more clearly!