puzzled with my current lover.
By delfinangula
@delfinangula (2)
Kenya
July 24, 2007 7:01pm CST
few months ago i was dating a girl, after quiet a long time of good shared love at school. we had to say goodbye to each other because we had to depart to different home places. after a month she informed me that she is pregnant.
i asked her mom if it was possible for her to come to my country and live with me. her mom answered me she is not yet tired of her doughter, for many times i asked her to come but her mom doesnt want to answer.
currently i got someone else and i discovered she is the true love of my life, but the case is my babyboy with the girl that i was with. im very puzzled because i want to inform my current soulmate, but im afraid because she might leave me. what must i do? please help. by abias
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4 responses
@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
• United States
27 Jul 07
Well my dear..First and fore most..you should be totslly honest with your new love..she should understand..it was before her..and things happen...and how old is the ex love? and how far away are your countries now? because i dont know how things work in other countries than the USA,,is there a way that you wil be able to get some kind of custody of your son when he is born? i would work on that..but as for your new love..just tell her the trusth and if she doesnt understand..well hun it wasnt ment to be..she shouldnt judge you..it was the past.before her..so i wish u the best luck..take care and good luck..April
@hearts_melodies (78)
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
You have to tell him no matter what of how you fear that she will leave you. It is nice to share with her your secret! Remember there is no secret that cannot be reveal in time. It may hurt her more if she will know it from other people. Lets just hope that he will understand you!
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
25 Jul 07
Hey, you sound so confusing my friend.. You have to do some soulsearching and ask yourself what you really want in your life... Got a baby, dont turn your back on them and you have to be fair with everybody most especially with your current partner. Act now before everyhing will be too late... A very complicating situation youve got. .
... To lighten up, i see ur a newbie. Welcome aboard and have fun here. Goodluck on your decision-making. (",)
@Cassy1976 (796)
• Australia
25 Jul 07
I think that no matter what you should be honest with your current partner. If she truly loves you she will understand! If you keep it to yourself and she finds out some other way I am sure that the consequences will be alot worse! We all have a past and we have to be honest about it other wise it will come back and slap you in the face
