My new Boss is the man I've been looking for.
By irishmist
@irishmist (3814)
United States
July 24, 2007 10:10pm CST
To bad I can't have him. I'm finding out we have all the same things in common, and he is so cute. He is also my age. He is into staying in shape, health foods, organic food, fresh veggies, vitamins, working out & so much more. And he has a great sense of humor, just like me. So why can't I find a guy like this. All the guys that want to go out with me look so much older than their age and don't care about Their selves, and think they are gods gift to woman. The kicker is they are looking for a pretty girl who takes care of themselves (ha ha).
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@gregory_burnz (40)
• Philippines
25 Jul 07
...like begets like...most probably you would look for someone of your line..because at most you couldn't agree more with your opposite...we'll it's not that bad to admire him...as long it wouldn't go into destructive relationship..and for the men trying to buy you..sorry for them..there are really lot of men wanting pretty women and yet they don't invest first in making themselves attractive inoder to get women of their taste...
@irishmist (3814)
• United States
25 Jul 07
My point beeing. The man lets himself go, but wants a pretty woman, in response to the latter part of my post. Just to clarify, no men were trying to buy me, and if they did. I'm here to tell y it wouldn't work lol.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
25 Jul 07
i don't see why you can't get to know him. yes he is your boss but he is still a man. and if things really go there then you could just find another job if they don't allow you to have a relationship with a boss or co-worker
@saigonwarrior (1331)
• United States
25 Jul 07
Yep..that is funny..they have let themselves go for 20 years and then think they are attractive to some young pretty girl...lol
I am the same, I have taken care of myself, eaten healthy, exercise, I don't smoke, drink only in moderation ever since I was a teen. I am married, but I still know what you mean.
I see it all of the time. It is very hard to find someone close to your own age if you are older.
My husband's best friend is single, works, keeps himself relatively fit, is a nice guy, but can't find a date. So, some men go through it, too.
I hope that meet someone that suits your needs. You never know whats around the corner :)
@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
25 Jul 07
Yes, I see this all the time and I am a guy and my fellow workers would wonder why they can't get a ten when they are lucky to be a four? well, it is called delutional of them to be so picky when they have little to bring to the plate..
What women and men have to do is pick a person who is not so perfect as most people are unrealistic in desiring a ten..these tens are high maintenance..look for the inner strenght but don't settle for a loser but you should not be so judgemental either..some of these people that you are eliminating could be a "fixer upper.?"
Men find a women and hope she never changes
weome find a man and hope to change them..
Maybe you should braoden your horizens and get a European man or a Asian gentleman friend..just be friends first..as a lot of these guys have good traits..its just a thought..good luck and don't drop your standards..just don't set the bar too high
