have you loved someone who loves someone else?
By aikastacruz
@aikastacruz (187)
Philippines
July 25, 2007 5:21am CST
have you loved someone who loves someone else? and somewhat loves you as well? i know how you guys feel.. painful as it seems, we brought it on ourselves.. we chose this path so we have to face the given consequences..
it's not easy for me to give martyrdom a upper hand, but as they always say, love conquers all, such, love knows no reason.. loving HIM is never easy for me, i have to accept all the down sides of our relationship.. i know you know what i mean.. all i could say to sum my feelings up is, its painful and distressful to know that you can't be with the one you love all the time you wanted.. i gave up my lifestyle for him.. that's how much i love him.. my world and lifestyle now depends on him, depends on what time he'd give me, and depends on how much love he'd give me.. all i can do is wait.. wait.. wait..
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7 responses
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
thanks lisa, :( well.. im happy with him although i know things wouldn't be that easy for me.. it's just that, it's like a long long way for me to feel DEEP happiness..
@spoiledsister (73)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
It's so hard being on your situation. It's so painful to wait for someone who loves someone else because you never know if he'll learn to love you or not. For me, the best thing for you to do is be patient. God bless you in waiting!:)
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
its much painful to wait for someone who loves you but is also loving someone else.. godbless to0 my friend.. i guess im patient enough knowing im still here, loving him,,
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
yes i know your point my friend.. but as ive said my situation is im loving someone who's loving someone else, i know im gonna hurt and i knnow i have to sacrfice my own self that's why i hold on to that conclusion "we brought the pain ourselves".. i still hold onto him though i know im hurting inside, do you get me? thanks for the concern.. but dont get me wrong.. i understand your comment, i know there are situations when you're like loving someone and yet behind you he's loving someone else and later you'd just find out and etc etc problems soon occur.. that's life.. that's love.. love begets love.. sad.. ;(
@xenna1986 (228)
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
its really hard girl. Im alson in a quite like yours situation.. I always feel the guilt but I just cant give up my happiness.. tsk..
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
oh.. really? yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. i cant just giv him up just like that., i dont know if i have to fight for him but i know for a cheese that im nothing compared to whoever..
@kiluamelai18 (63)
• Philippines
25 Jul 07
hi, if you really meant for each other then so be it but if not care to look around coz you'll never know someone out there has made a special place for you in his heart. you, yourself knows the painful consequences of waiting for uncertainties. what if after your long waits will reward you with nothing, ouch that hurts! as they say, if you love someone you gotta learn to let them go. there would always be such thing called as a match made in heaven. have a little faith my friend.
godspeed!
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
thanks.. i appreciate that.. *sigh* but it's easy said than done.. i dunno how to go on with my life without him by my side.. ive learned living my life knowing i have him with me - although i know im already sacrificing my own self for him.. that's how i love him my friend.. i really dunno what to do..
@lucyem (120)
• United States
25 Jul 07
It's wrong to give up everything for someone you love, especially when he loves someone else. You need to keep things of your own--interests, hobbies, time, space, family, friends, etc. Without them, and without him, you're lost, and you're not your ownperson. Instead, you stay waiting by the phone, computer, etc, and you can't live a full life. Even though it hurts, it's best to end the relationship. You both need to find someone who loves each of you completely, not be with each other because you have feelings for each other. There's an old saying that goes, "If you love someone, you'll set them free." Think about that, and hang in there.
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
i'll be lost still if i lose him.. i dunno, really.. i don't have the faintest clue on how im gonna proceed with my life.. yes i admit im kinda stuck in a corner waiting for someone who'd knock on my head.. im longing for comforts and know the feeling of being all alone though i got many friends.. all of you just say "go ahead leave him and find someone new, he's not worth every tears every night, etc etc blah blah blah.. im hurting to0 when someone says bad things about him ofcourse, i dont want anything to get in our way, but its just that, he's the reason why there's something getting on our way.. frankly, i dont know what future id have years from now, i can't just put things up and all things done when i know for a fact that all i can do is wait wait wait with his decisions.. or maybe.. he has really no intention in marrying me.. again, alli could say is.. i love him, ill wait still.. :'( ITS SO HARD FOR ME TO PATCH THINGS UP.. he doesn't know all this stuff.. *but he knows im hurting..
