single but happy
By rabejuela
@rabejuela (20)
Philippines
July 25, 2007 7:07am CST
being single doesn't mean that you are sad and incomplete. There are a lot of advantages when you are single like you can do whatever you want to do and you can go anywhere. There will be NO boyfriend tagging along and telling you what to do and whom to go out with. You can change the way you look anytime you want without any boyfriend telling you that he doesn't like it, that he likes the "old you" better, etc. When you are single, you are also free from those heartaches and pains, and you can even have a wide variety of guys to choose from. And you can admire or look at another guy without any guilt that you might be cheating on your boyfriends. And you don't have to make any excuses just so that you can go out with your girl friends at night....Being single means FREEDOM!!!...so, if you're single , don't worry because it means IT'S TIME TO PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
25 Jul 07
Yes, its nice to be single and free but we cannot deny the fact that we need to be taken cared of and to be loved by someone. Its nice to have a partner to share your life with and to grow old wit, life is not always about parties and enjoyment, there are also good things thats goes with having a relationship with someone. Its is a venue for us to improve our selves and also sacrifice for other people as well.
@diannebcrs (1549)
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
you're right. that's what my mum always tells me. but there are instances, i must admit, that whenever i see some couples holding hands or two love birds so very much in love, there's this irritating feeling of loneliness even though i'm with my friends.. then i get to immediately think about the person i love. but well.. just for a fleeting second. i love being single! :)
@diannebcrs (1549)
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
i don't know if i'm called weak or anything but whenever i feel jealous or lonely, i try to convince myself that being single has its advantages to stay happy and contented. there are times that i'm really convinced about how great being single is... but there are also times when i usually sulk and tell myself that i'm just in denial. during the day, i love being single because i can go enjoy myself without having to be conscious of what my boyfriend might think or say. but during nights, i feel strangely lonely when no one's holding my hand or telling me how he he loves me so. i crave for attention and affection from my family and friends.. but sometimes, i like to be in love and be loved by a guy who can tell me sweet things i'd like to hear and show me some really romantic affection. i guess this is a disease called "hopeless romantic." or perhaps it's lunacy. what do i know? i'm still young.
