what would u do if your boyfriend or girlfriend...

I agree with Ravinskye, if my b/f cheats on me, there is no second chance. Its either just me or, no me. When someone cheats on you, that means that they don't respect you, they don't see the relationship from the same viewpoint as you do. I figure he either wants me or not, and if he doesn't want me why would I stay with him? Its not fair to you to have to be disrespected, also what happens if he get an STD and the next thing you know, you have AID's or Herpes. If you are loyal to him then you deserve someone who is loyal to you. After all, relationships are built on trust, without it, there is no succesful relationships. How can you be sure that hes not just keeping you around to have someone until he finds a different girl he wants more? If he was 100 percent sure your the one he wouldn't be cheating. But hes probably not looking for "the one" he probably just wants to have fun, and enjoys the ego boosts he can get from getting laid by many women.