What do you think of it?
By naem86
@naem86 (123)
Malaysia
July 25, 2007 7:37pm CST
Since most relationships do not work out...we all fall in love and then when things do not work out we get hurt alot... is it better to not go this road....is it not better to have arranged marriage...What do you think plz tell
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4 responses
@irishmist (3814)
• United States
6 Aug 07
My thought is anything is hit or miss. Nobody can say in this day and age. As far as arranged marrige. Well... Don't we all have the right to choose, who will make us happy? Nothing is set in stone.
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
26 Jul 07
My thoughts on this issue are that it depends on whether you get a right person or not.May it be arranged or love marriage if you don't get the person that suits you it becomes difficult to adjust.And if you once decide in the mind that you will have to adjust wiht some things ,you get less hurt and your relation will last longer.After all there is no complete person.
@stealthy (8181)
• United States
26 Jul 07
An arranged marriage would the worst possible scenario. One would probably never have the joy of being in love. Even if a marriage started out of love comes apart, one has memories and learns from the experience. An arranged marriage almost by definition is one that could not be gotten out of and thus one would be stuck mostly likely with no love at best and with the possibility of an intolerable situation or worse.
@Jane_Harper (61)
•
26 Jul 07
You seem to have a very negative attitude towards relationships. Not all relationships are destined for marriage. Being hurt from a break up teaches us valuable lessons about love and how to deal with future relationships.
Who says most relationships don't work out anyway? Are all arranged marriages guaranteed, perfect relationships?
Like life, relationships are complicated. It seems that there is no ideal answer, no 'system' is necessarily right or wrong.
Have faith, find love and be happy....