new age

United States
July 25, 2007 8:58pm CST
Whst would you do if you found out that your daughter's boyfriend has been beating on her.
8 responses
@lucyem (120)
• United States
26 Jul 07
Depends on how old your daughter is. If she's a minor, forbid her to see him and call the police if he beats her. If she's not, urge her to get help from a women's center, counselor, or shelter. In either case, for best results she should probably have counseling to keep her self-esteem and image good, and so she doesn't blame you for stepping in. Hugs to you and your daughter! (What I'd really like to do is kick his a*** all the way to China, but short of that, I'd definitely help her!) If she doesn't live with you, ask her if she wants to move in.
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@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
Where on earth did he get that permit to beat? If i am the mother of that daughter i will exert all means to put that devil in jail. We parents do our best to give the best to our children and can even offer our happiness and life just to give comfort to our children. If my daughter had done something wrong to her boyfriend, better left her than beat her. As parents, we should not allow anybody to harm our children.
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• Philippines
27 Jul 07
If I happen to be the mother of that daughter I will personally invite the "boyfriend" for dinner. Cook the best meal for them. Serve great drinks. Why not invite some few friends of the boy and my daughter. After dinner a demonstration of how to discipline that boy. I will beat him so bad that he will regret stepping into the life of my daughter. I am a very protective person whoever hurt those who are close to me will GET IT! Of course before going into drastic measures I should get enough evidence for there friends to look at. Information is a powerful tool, so that they will avoid being beaten themselves, maybe by there boyfriends or a parent like me...
• United States
30 Jul 07
i love this method...show him what he's missing out on and then beat it out of him! haha.
26 Jul 07
Get a friend of mine to give him a taste of his own medicine. He wouldn't touch my daughter again.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
I would do the same. And I wouldn't let the person know who send for him. I don't want my daughter to know what I did. I will just tell him that someone saw him beat up a girl. Sometimes, teens don't really understand what we do for them. Even if we try to help them, we end up the bad-guys. So I wouldn't want my daughter to run away from home because of what I've done. I want her to learn from her mistakes, but I want to get the crap out of that guy. =)
@cheodej (102)
• Germany
26 Jul 07
he can't see my daughter again, ever! if he comes back, i can't promise if i can control myself. he maybe look a place to hide! nobody beats my kids!!!
@dunnbiz (33)
• Indonesia
29 Jul 07
i would ask my daughter to leave him. make her understand that a man shouldn't beat a woman, no matter what. and if she forgive him and still be with him, i guarantee that one day, he will repeat it again. if this way doesn't work, then i will use the hard way..
@inked4life (4224)
• United States
26 Jul 07
I'd head on down to Costco where I'd purchase a mammoth sized can of whoop-a$$ which I would then take over to his house and open on him....anyone hurts any of my kids and there will be hell to pay
@chari_dc (492)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
my daughter is only 1 year old. the way me and her dad take care of her is just so impossible to parallel by any -- and i mean ANY -- guy when she grows up. just thinking about her eventually having a boyfriend who will just beat makes me angry.