long distance relationships

ohh... its such a difficult situation... what would be the reason that your parents wont like the guy?hmp..is it because of religion? if someone has already the job to support herself... parents must let their child to live life on their own. i have am now on a long distance relationship.. my parents doesnt know anything about it coz i know they wont allow me to have a boyfriend on a young age. even if im having a little difficulties on communicating with him.. we still do manage to feel each others presence.. hopefully youll have the happiness... GOodluck and welcome to mylot... ;)

Communication is the life and blood of any relationship, it is as vital as the water we drink, and air we breath. Silence is the poison that can slowly creep into a relationship and destroy it. Time and distance can be the most conclusive test to any relationship and many long distance affair dont last simply bec. people failed 2 hold on to the love they promise to keep and lose the enthusiasm to keep their communication line open. Everytime this happen they lost interest and slowly drift away. It is fragile to those who truly believe in this relationship and those who sincerly work hard to keep the immerse or thier love glowing, survive and live long, hold on for as long as you want to but dont let our absence deprive us with our happiness, go enjoy life. If our relationship are really meant to last then we dont really need to worry coz our love will find its way to keep it together...

Oh well this is a tricky situation but if you are sure of yourself and your bf, then you will have to stand firm on your beliefs, no matter what your parents say. First and foremost is economic independence for both of you. people start respecting you only when they see that you are capable enough to take care of yourself. It’s the same for your bf…if your parents are convinced that he can take care of you and your children, they will somewhat relent. But if religion or something else like nationality is a problem, then that’s a different cup altogether. But whatever you do, don’t have any excuses or regrets. It should not be that 10yrs from now on, if you are unhappily married with somebody else, you accuse your parents of spoiling your life.

If you are old enough to live on your own and support yourself. Your parents should have no way in your boyfriend or your job. It is time to stand up on your own 2 feet and tell them you are a self-supporting adult and will live life the way you see fit.

i think it is tough~ and you have to make a decision~ if you feel that you can live without him you can have a communication with your parents tell them you can't live without him i think if you insist they will let you have your own life~ wish you luck

hello glitz, if i am in that situation, i will be brave enought to fix all the things. first, i will talk to my parents deeply and sincerely, next is talk to myself about the cause of my resignation and lastly, talk to my girlfriend bout the situation. and lastly, if possible, we will talk bout this big issue together in one sitting... life challenges, digerati