How would you feel?
By ladylily29
@ladylily29 (323)
United States
July 26, 2007 9:33pm CST
How would you feel if your man told you he hated you for lying about something but he guessed he has enough of love for you to make up for the hate?Then tells you he knows you lye alot ,but he just pretends to believe you? What you say, how would you feel?Cause you don't lye to him.He says he can tell you lye when you can't tell the same story two times without messing up.I have a memory problem, and I can't vocally say stuff right.One reason I haven't held a public job very well, I can't explain things or tell stuff straight to save my neck, and all my family knows this about me, so what is the deal with my long time honey telling me this junk?What is you thoughts?
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
27 Jul 07
I think either he doesn't understand your condition or he is trying to make you mad enough to leave. I would be so hurt if a loved one thought I was lying to them when I wasn't. I guess it is time to find a new boyfriend that will respect you and will and can understand your memory problem.Take Care.
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@rarrimalion (674)
• United States
27 Jul 07
hates you?? Does he understand just how strong a word hate really is?? It doesnt mean dislike or annoyed or upset or hurt. Hate is the polar opposite of love. So you really can't truely love someone and hate them at the same time. If my boyfriend ever said that to me i'd be SO upset. But honestly, it sounds like he doesn't really mean he hates you, just that he's hurt or annoyed by your action or something. Maybe it's something that's been building up for awhile and now it's come out. Or maybe something else in his life is bothering him and THIS is how he chooses to release all that built up tension. Why does he think you lie exactly? Ask him to give you examples of these "lies." And there's a difference between REALLY lying and just telling a story a little different... that might not be a blantant lie, you're just remembering or forgetting different parts each time you tell it!
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@rarrimalion (674)
• United States
27 Jul 07
hates you?? Does he understand just how strong a word hate really is?? It doesnt mean dislike or annoyed or upset or hurt. Hate is the polar opposite of love. So you really can't truely love someone and hate them at the same time. If my boyfriend ever said that to me i'd be SO upset. But honestly, it sounds like he doesn't really mean he hates you, just that he's hurt or annoyed by your action or something. Maybe it's something that's been building up for awhile and now it's come out. Or maybe something else in his life is bothering him and THIS is how he chooses to release all that built up tension. Why does he think you lie exactly? Ask him to give you examples of these "lies." And there's a difference between REALLY lying and just telling a story a little different... that might not be a blantant lie, you're just remembering or forgetting different parts each time you tell it!
