Will you want to marry?In what time?

im 19 and will be graduating college, on march 2008. my parents told me that i can marry as early as april next year, ill just have to make sure that ill finish my studies first. but in my opinion, ill marry once i save money for my future..

Hello mylijun!!! welcome to mylot!! I sorry to hear that you are forced by your parents to marry even if you don't want to. I know some parents who are like yours, which i think is not good. If you're not ready to engage into that important stage of life then don't. You need to explain it to them what would your life be if you do what they want? It's your life, you need to decide for yourself not them. I mean i'm not taking my parents for granted, in fact i treasure tehm so much and appreciates their advices, but in that part of my life i have to decide for on my own. I can't be married if i'm not ready, because it's a big responsibility and i might live miserably and unhappy. Would your parents want that to happen to you? If they love you, they would understand. Take care friend...

It's not right for you to marry just because your parents insist on it. I feel sorry for the partners in such a marriage. Thst is your decision, not theirs. You need to stand up to them and tell them that marriage is not acceptable to you.