Does your parner leave messes for you to clean up?

No, he doesn't..He is very good at finishing what he has started. He was a bachelor until I met him. He was 35 then. I think he was so used to doing for himself. We have been together going on 24 years now.

All the time! It does not matter how many laundry baskets I have in the house, he always puts his dirty clothes on the floor in front of his dresser. He does his share of the cooking, but only rarely will he clean up after his cooking. He leaves his pop cans wherever he finished drinking it, even though there might be a trash can within a couple of feet. I know I should not complain so much, but it seems as if I have 2 children to clean up after instead of just the one son that we have! So, don't feel bad, you are not alone.

Yes, all the time. He is constantly bringing things from his work home and throwing them on the dining room table. He also leaves water around the basin after he shaves.

YES!! My husband does stuff like that all the time!! He will like leave his dirty clothes by the back door (if he has been working outside-mowing the lawn or whatever) and instead of taking them to the laundryroom on his way to take a shower (which would be like three steps out of his way) he will yell and tell me his dirty clother are at the back door. Like I am not busy with the kids...and I really want to go pick up his dirty-stinky-sweaty clothes...gross!! He is oblivious sometimes and just thinks that I want to take care of him ALL the tim...most of the time I don't mind but sometimes I wonder what is going on in his head, like it isn't hard enough picking up after two kids,..I have to pick up after him as well?? Men are so silly!!!

Hey. No I dont have that problem, my husband is quiet tidy. In saying that, I dont have to pick up after him or our children... We're both tidy people, in our own home and in the homes of others we may visit... I refuse to have it any other way lol...

I have to say yes and no to that. Yes, he did leave messes for me before. But I don't know what happened to him. One day, he just woke up and now, he cleans up after himself. He still sometimes leave a mess but he does go back for it and clears it up. But before, whenever I leave him in a room. After only an hour, when I get back to that room, it will be a total mess. I sometimes complain and ask him to pick up the mess especially when I'm already tired from doing some other chores. He usually gives me a response of "Yeah, I'll do that later!" And when he says these words, I know I'm only asking for the impossible. So, I have no choice but to do it myself.

it does get old cleaning up after someone else you need to be more assertive and get your husband to be responsible for his part you have enuof to do in one day right !! i do pickup after my partner if its not a big deal but i let her now about the annoying ones.

Yes, my ex used to do that. My dad does that to my mom. Most women that I have ever talked to say that their partners do leave messes. I guess its just a part of married life. But there are other compensations so hopefully in the end, it all evens out! :-)

Generally, my partner is pretty good at cleaning up after herself. She usually doesn't leave too many things around the place that I have to clean up. I generally leave whatever she messes up for her to clean up considering most of it belongs to her. Sometimes however, I get into a cleaning mood and decide enough is enough and that it's time to clean up the junk. Then, whenever I start doing that, she starts it and usually finishes up herself. So I'm not really left doing much.

Generally he is fine on this issue. For his dirty clothes, he will put them into the laundry bin and I will check it regularly and wash them.

My partner is always leaving messes for me to clean up, whether it be dishes in the sink or clothes in the basket there is always something that he will leave for me to do but that is ok, I dont mind most of the time, as long as he isnt actually telling me to do things then that is ok, I can go around and pick up after him at my own pace and that is cool!

no, its the other way around! joke! seriously, whenever my husband is home for vacation, he dont just sit around, he will always find something to do, even mopping the floor or washing the dishes, and he is a better cook than me. my husband does not like mess, and if he can do it himself, he does, he does not wait for me to clean his mess. Am I so lucky to have him as a husband! I think I am! Good day!

He does when we live together he's in the army so were apart alot but when he is home yes he does stuff like that. He cooks and I do the dishes but he leaves them everywhere why can't he just put them in the sick I dont know. On the other hand when he's not home I really miss the messes. Sad I know but we spend more time apart then we do together.

Oh yes....all the time. He says that he forgets but I seriously wonder sometimes.