who can help me ?

China
July 26, 2007 11:02pm CST
i am a girl. i am not good at talking with my friends.i am afraid that i will make some mistakes to them and chat with everbody . who can tell me how to chat with people ?
2 responses
@madzie09 (278)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
hello there, there are a lot of girls who are just like you and I'm one them before :) I'd like to share some of what I did to overcome this stuff...first, love and appreciate yourself (but don't over do it 'coz it may have a different outcome), then try to open up with your family first (serves as a practice of getting use with people), try to believe that "you don't care what they think", MINGLE - mingle with friends that you have the same interests and with those who don't (just don't criticize they're opinions), SMILE - this one is a really good thing to do, think POSITIVE - people doesn't always think bad about you...SOCIALIZE, it would really help...just try to open up bit by bit..confidence cannot be adopt overnight, take each step at a time. :) hope this helps..
• China
30 Jul 07
thank you for your good suggestion .it's so particular .thanks .thanks...
• China
27 Jul 07
with an honest and brave heart ,you can do it.
• China
30 Jul 07
thanks ~~~!!!!!!