What would a guy think if i said this to him......

When I first told my husband I loved him. I said "If you stay much longer I think I will fall in love with you." He did not say anything but he did not leave. After a long time he said "How much longer do I have to stay for you to love me?" I said "I love you now." We will be celebrating our 30 anniversy next month. LOL

lol naad dats not bad if a gal propoes 1st. i mean if u ove someone just go n tell her/him b4 its too late, being a girl or boy doesnt matters to me atleast, well asfar ur question goes, depends on how ur sayin dat 'i love you' i got some galfrndz who r always like 'love you rock' n i am always like love u too, tho i know dat they r my frndz, real good frndz. (:

Well sometimes you have the feeling and really share that feeling but guys are slow at saying it or bashful afraid to say I love you just in case you dont fell the same way

I think it depends on where you lived. Different countries have different cultures and thinking and hence react differently if a girl makes the first move. In my opinion, today is the 21st century, my friend. There is equality in sexes. Females of today are no longer females of yesterday. They are more outspoken and some can be on par with the males in the corporate world. I am fine with the girl making the first move. In fact, I might see her with a different light :)

Im female, so not exactly sure what they would think. But i think it is great for a woman to be open with her feelings. I think if you have been seeing a guy for a while and you are very close, that a guy would be honoured if it was said to him. Best wishes to you, naadia

Well according to my experience .. a guy will feel the same way .. like we girls feel .. Their reaction can be shocking/happy/fainted just anything depending on the situation .. though I know that 90% of girls wait for the guys to propose them but for me .. I have so far in my lifetime .. have proposed two guys .. the first guy was quite shocked by my proposal and the second guy didn't responded well -- which made me think that he was not interested. The first guy was firstly shocked and on the second moment he was quite happy to get a proposal from a girls side .. no girl proposed him before me and he was really happy to get a proposal.

tell him in a "save" way. Because guys don't like us (women) to chasing around. Its their job. Or you will ignore by him.

Hi naadia, I wud fist go nuts... then quiver, shiver, tremble and finally bury my head like ostrich.. Best, Mike

I had that experience, I was proposed by a girl

Naadia..... First guy will shocking then wondering.... He will dream about her. But he will get afraid also.....

i would think " how long is this going to last,or is it again that i maight have to look at my ceiling once she leaves?" haha. but yes , if the love you is genuine then i will say "thank you GOD".