Turn between two lover...
By lextoper
@lextoper (573)
Philippines
July 27, 2007 3:19am CST
Do you ever wish you can love them both? I have a friend who is in this situation. He already have a girlfriend and he love her so much but because of financial needs, her girlfriend depart and went to other country for work. Although they were far away from each other, they have a constant communication thru text messages and internet.
He misses his girlfriend so much, he is not contended in just chatting and texting. What he did, he contacted his childhood friend (girl) for a meantime companion. They see each other everyday. They hang together after work and every weekends. The problem is, love is developed. They started to fall in love. Now my friend has this problem were he needs to choose between the two because her girl will arrive by this year.
If you were in this case, what will you do? who will you choose?
4 responses
@mabelk (208)
• Germany
18 Nov 07
'Though the heart has 4 chambers, it doesn't mean that love for someone will reside in each of them. No matter what the distance between him and his girlfriend, if it is true love, it will not seek attention from someone else. There might be the longing for the person, but as the saying goes, "Absence makes the heart grows fonder".
@queenhoneybee (139)
• United States
29 Jul 07
First off he should have not let it get this far. Two if he do not want drama or to hurt either of the young ladies he is going to have to make a decission. First before the other gets back he needs to make sure of what he is looking for in a girlfriend or a life long partner. Explain to the friend that he has grown fond of what going on and take time out when the girlfriend comes back to only spend time with her to make his decision. He has been cheating but he may have found hs soul mate in the friend or his soulmate may be coming back. If the friend truely loves him she would give him space because she new from the beginning he already had somebody. Unless he has lied to the friend.
@ezdollarincome (217)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
I think that situation is usual for a long distance relationship. If i were your friend, if he really love his girlfriend, he must overpass all temptation that will cross his path. I know its hard but he must used his heart and think of the possibilities before taking any actions. He may let his life busy in doing other things like sports and work. Hope it will help.
@MAX1966 (1029)
• Netherlands
29 Jul 07
you cant fall in love..
not if you really love your girlfriend/boyfriend.
if you fall in love with someone else,the relation was not so good
at least,that is my opinion
i had a relation,but fell in love with another man.
that means,the relation ship was bad
wich is true
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
I get what you mean. You got a point there max1966, that could be one of the reasons why we fall inlove with other else. Well, is his case, he really love his girlfriend so much and his girlfriend love him too. They have a good relationship before and after his girlfriend went to other country for work.
Thank you max for your response. Hope to hear from you soon...
