To tell or not to tell your ex...

You have a point. But what if your ex will get mad or feel resentful towards you because you didn't tell him. After all, he's been part of your life since you two were together before.. Or do you consider your ex as still part of your life?

Oh, I see. Thanks. :)

Well thats the thing Dianne, he is my ex. So he is no longer part of what I do in the present. Once the relationship is broken and we part, then really he does not have anymore to do with me and what I do in the future. I hope that makes sense.

I see.. Well, maybe if ever I'll be asked by my ex if I already met someone new, I'd tell him. But I won't be sharing about my feelings or what goes on with my new relationship. It's none of his business, right? Thanks for sharing, laydee. God bless!

"I see.. Well, maybe if ever I'll be asked by my ex if I already met someone new, I'd tell him. But I won't be sharing about my feelings or what goes on with my new relationship. It's none of his business, right?" Yeah definitely no sharing about my feelings. Whew, as you said in your other comment (in another's answer) we won't know, maybe he'll sabotage our relationship. Plus of course, some people don't really say the truth, they'd tell you they're okay when in fact they're still hurting and waiting for you to come back... hahaha... Anyways, hopefully, this partner of mine is the one. I wouldn't want anyone besides him. I love him. hehe.. Good luck friend. =)

You have a point. Thanks for the response.

Well, as long as you're good terms with your ex. But if not, he may plan to sabotage your new relationship.. Haha.. Just like in the movies. But anyway, I think it's better to tell him, just not the details or what's going on in your new relationship. That's no longer his business, right?

Haha.. I kinda get what you feel when you and your ex aren't in good terms - you wanna show to him that he's not the only one whom you can fall in love with. Ha. But I find the idea appealing if ever I'd have bad terms with my ex. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Much appreciated. God bless!

I do not blame you because I totally agree... Sometimes, when we get hurt, we like to hurt the ones who hurt us. And sometimes we want to let them know that we're not affected and we've moved on. But if you're friends with your ex, I guess it's normal to talk about meeting someone new, right?

I know an ex is an ex. But what I wanna know is whether you're still obliged to tell him or something. I mean, your ex is part of your past, right? Hmm.. Do you still feel a sense of obligation to tell him or her that you've met someone else? What if he or she will tell you how bad he or she felt because you didn't tell him or her about meeting someone new?