Do you ever exaggerate your compliments to please people?
By diannebcrs
@diannebcrs (1549)
Philippines
July 27, 2007 4:00am CST
Sometimes I do. Especially when I like the person or when the person is really down on the dumps. I like giving compliments to people, not only because it please them but I also find happiness when I see people happy and feel good about themselves.
How about you?
3 responses
@JCIJACKY24 (75)
• China
27 Jul 07
the good feeling among people are cataching,when we are happy,we like saying and it seems that everying looks so beautiful.
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@JCIJACKY24 (75)
• China
27 Jul 07
when we start a new discussion ,everyone want to have a respond ,this is normal human feeling.when i my discussion is responeded by others,i will be pleased.
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@onlinebiz (119)
• Singapore
28 Jul 07
I don't really exaggerate, but I do like to compliment people. I mean, everyone loves positive remarks right? Negative ones can be really hurtful sometimes, especially when u r sad enough.
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@diannebcrs (1549)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
I exaggerate my compliments especially when people are down or feel awfully insecure about themselves. I want them to feel good about themselves to the point that they won't feel down anymore.
Thanks for your respond, friend! :)
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
27 Jul 07
I never exaggerate compliments, or give false compliments. I'd rather give a true compliment that is heartfelt than to just pay lip service and have it lessen the value of it. I like to see others happy too, but I won't give a compliment that is a half-truth or less than sincere. I know when somebody gives me an insincere inflated compliment, it may make me feel good for a minute, but I have second thoughts about the person that gave it and wonder why they're trying so hard to be liked.
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@diannebcrs (1549)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
Well, good for you because you are indeed honest. But in my case, I'm pretty sure I don't sound fake because everytime I feel like the person whom I'm giving an exaggerated compliment deserved it, my voice doesn't come out fake since my intention is to please him/her. And I like it that way because it pleases the people, especially to those who really matter to me.
Cheers! :)
Thanks for sharing your thoughts about this matter. Makes sense. :)
