Do you think being single at the age of 30 is still good?

I don't think being single at 30 is bad. I have alot of friends that are married and happy, but I also have friends in there 30's that have been so focused on there careers that they have never found time but they are all very happy! My sister is 30 and has just split up with her partner and altho they were never married she has never been happier! I even have a friend who id in her 40's and never been married and is happy with her life and with being single.

Yes being single at the age of 30 is great imangine the freedom U got. Imangine the worries you don't have to face during break ups . being single = no fights over unhappy matters, not stress to make more money for your family . all the money U earn is for yourself . all the time is yours. No one to restrict your time .being single is great freedom at all times.

I think being single these days is quite fashionable, the girls who can't wait to have babies will continue to get married as soon as they can but there is a lot of people who prefer to stay single, marriage is a big gamble these days one that a lot of people are just not willing to take.

I think what you're doing is wise. It's better to be single and happy than to be married and miserable. If you're not ready or have not found the right person, you should definitely not settle down for the sake of settling down. I only got married when I was 33 and I have no regrets. I enjoyed the time I had when I was single. I was able to focus on my career, travel a lot, do all things I wanted to do. Now, I'm a stay-at-home mom and I know I would not have been able to do half of the things I did if I was married and had kids.

There is nothing wrong with being single at 30 or even 40, 50, 60. You said it yourself: Many of your friends who married early are separated now. That's proof that you shouldn't rush into marriage. You should only do it when you're absolutely sure. Remember, it's better to be free than being with the wrong person.

for women is 25. and 4 men it is 30 is good

If you don't have any ill-feeling about marriage, then staying back from it is not a logic at all. I think you should get married very soon. Being single is not a good idea.

In my opinion, 25-26 years is an appropriate age for a girl to get married. Because, a girl is likely to become mother after getting married, so younger is the mother, better is for the child. In the long run also it helps if one got married at any early age. In the later years of his marriage, he/she can discharge his/her responsibilities towards his/her children more effectively. If it is a delayed marriage,it causes problems in brininging up the family and taking care of them effectively. You should get married, if you are serious, as early as you can or if you wish to remain single,then no problem.

It's better to be single and happy than to be married and miserable. I married "late" too at the "ripe old age" of 33. And I have NO regrets. I got to do all the things I wanted to do as a single woman. And I waited till I found the right guy. I did not settle. And I'm glad I waited. I don't think there is ever the right age. You will know when the time is right. And don't let anyone pressure you into anything when you are not ready. I did get a lot of talk from "concerned" family members...but I just turn a deaf ear. It's your life and your marriage. So, do what you think is best for you and your future.

Hi selene i will say 30 is alredy too late .You had all the time which you wanted as a single. I will suggest start thinking seriously , as after 30 time goes very fast and suddenly you will realise you are 33 or 34 ..I have seen people making taht mistake but they have personally told me life drags after 32 .So take quick decison and find your soulmate. Cheers

Yeah. Why would you rush if your think you won't be happy. Just make sure you find one. But don't expect high standards, that is hard to look for. Make sure you choose the right one ^_^ And yeah, just a hint. It is always said "What your looking for is always infront of you" ^_^

I can understand your situation. It must be very hard handling kids single handedly, but on the other hand its given you freedom from the situations you mayve faced earlier . And i am sure you have your good moments being single with your kids. And its only when youre with friends and their family, that you miss out on having a family of your own. I would suggest not to rush into marriage, just for having a family, instead take your time, tread carefully, wiat and watch. Let love happen to you, and when it does, you would know it, and maybe that maybe the right person you may get married to.

Look I am 38 and still not married and better yet never lived with a man. I hve a duaghter who is 9 though. I am single and proud of it. I prefer to remain as I am than to marry and end up being divorced. i honetsly hope that one day the right man will come along but until then I am willing to stay as I am single - and proud of it. Nothing is wrong with being single.

I don't think that's bad at all. There is no rule that mentioned that you should get marry before 30 or something like that.

I think being thirty and still single is perfectly alright with me. I have a friend who is already 32 and she is not married yet. I have a cousin who is already 39 and still she isn't married. She has a successful career as an accountant, a huge bungalow to live in and a beautiful car. But she chooses to be single and she is happy with her life. There is always a chance for you to get married even if you are getting older. Nowadays there are many ways in which you can get to know other people. Dating sites grow like morning mushrooms all throughout the world. You can try one of these sites to get to know somebody near your place. Or you can always find somebody far away from your country, it is all your choice. Marriage is always a gamble. We can never predict what will happen in the next 10 years after we get married to a person. It might turn out to be good, it might turn out to be sorrow. We can only plan and choose the best person in the hope that we can find happiness with him. You have to be brave to face the future. In life there is never a certainty, even in marriage. So if you think you are ready, then get married. If not, there is plenty of time for you to get ready. Don't push yourself, and just be relax. I believe the right person will eventually appear in your life. I pray for the best of your future married life, if you choose to get married one day. For now, have a nice day and happy posting!

I don't think being single at 30 or whatever is bad. Now adays marriage has become a bigger gamble than ever. Who can say you would have been completely happy if u married? If you rwally want to yoyu must wait for the right person to come.

Oh friend! I think I understand your position and I also agree with the fact that it is better to get married even at late age and be happy rather than getting married at an early stage and get divorce at the end of the day. You see friend, the best advice I will give you is you should pray and fast in order for God to connect you with the kind of husband you want not a man who will cause grieve to your life. Thanks

do you have a boyfriend now? if you have a boyfriend, then i think it is ok being a single. if you are really singe without a boyfriend, then i hope you can find a boyfriend. i decide to marry my boyfriend when i'm 30 years old. so i think being single is wonderful now. if you are independent in economy, then being single is a best choice. but you should make boyfiends, then you will not miss a complex experience. i think we are all actors, so we should experience more and more.

now you must think of your goals in life. if you marry early, you can raise your family soon and enjoy the company. but the catch is, it depends if you are capable of running it and also financially prepared. on the other hand, if you marry late, you can't enjoy the family that much. am speaking of taking time with your kids playing in the park. for sure you can't run that fast anymore, chasing your kids or the other way maybe, in the park, because your knees are not that strong already.

You're probably torn between the two options: getting married or just be a happily single. Nowadays, it's so hard to find someone whom you can call your own. I suggest you take your time while waiting for the ONE. MAximize your blessed singleness because when you got married it's gonna be really different. Many guys have come and go in your life or probably will come and go. The point is, if you end up hurting, it's a natural process. They are (the guys) the right guys at that particular moment in your life. I couldn't really give you any advice regarding relationships and all. Because i can just say that when you found the one, make the most out of everything-the first stages, all the stages and phases that will come. Just remember, it takes two to tango. Just extend your understanding but don't be a doormat. Guys would love girls who have backbones! Good luck! I hope you'll find him soon!