Have you fell in love with the wrong person?
By myeganda11
@myeganda11 (141)
Philippines
13 responses
@carol_m (709)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
If a wrong person would simply mean your ex, then I'll definitely say I have fallen for the wrong person many times. But I couldn't say if it was really love because I wasn't even affected when we broke up. True, I sulked for a while but that was it...I already moved on.
You cannot really tell if your partner right now is the wrong one until you broke up =)
Tell you what, maybe it wasn't really a wrong person afterall..maybe, the time isn't just right but the person could have been the right one for you..you just didn't see it as that because of whatever circumstances associated with him/her..that in the end you separated and you would say he/she was just a wrong person.
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
That is absolutely true, maybe the right one at the wrong time. hmmm..but when can it be the right time anyway? Will it ever happen?
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
Maybe when both of you make it right someday..not now..maybe soon..because if love is true you'll fight for it to be right. hahahha!
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
Those people who love and get hurt because of fail relationship are those people who tried to says that they love the wrong person.I had a lot of bad past.Fail marriage,fail relationship.Get hurt,get broke,cried a lot of tears.But i guess,its not right to say that its because i love the wrong person.Everyone seems to feel this way.And this is how and what life bring to us because of the decisions we made.Our hearts,choose them to love not our mind.Its better to accept and keep moving on and have all the hopes that someday, somehow,everythings has reason.And its not we love the wrong person...We better appreciate those time you feel the love and be loved in the same way...It may last forever,just like life,we ALL never LAST forever...We better grow and be thankful that we experienced those kind of situations but then,our soul is still WHOLE!!!
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
I was amazed knowing that you have chosen me to be the best response on this discussion you started.All i am trying to say here is basically from my own experiences....
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
It's possible that he may be a wrong person for now, but the right one to make your life better in many ways. learning from other people is part of life moving on. that's absolutely right gwapako_28. thanks!
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@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
so he tricked you? guys will never show their cards because they don't want to lose the game..play your cards right dear. Ill teach you....
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
It's like in any game the rules are: know your player,especially his weakness, don't show your cards too soon and smile to bluff. Make yourself competitive with other players. I hope you get what I mean.
@queenhoneybee (139)
• United States
29 Jul 07
unfortuntaly most if us have but we should all take it as a life lesson and try to move on as quickly as possible.
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
i agree, it's unfair for you. do move on quickly before it's too late to go because you have loved the person so deeply..
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
What do you mean? isn't it right to love someone you like?
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
hmmmm..well that should fall on my other discussion.."who flirts best,married men or single women" :) loving a married man is a lose-lose situation..but they are fun to be with right?
@wooitsmolly (3613)
• United States
28 Jul 07
My first boyfriend was so wrong for me, but I fell for him pretty hard. We never said we loved each other (he said it when he was breaking up with me as if it made it better or something) and we only dated for a few months, but he was my first so it was hard. Once we broke up it became so clear that we were wrong for each other. He was very very religious and I was not at all. We had a different outlook on most things... I don't know how we ever got along! We had too hard of a time maintaining a friendship so we just moved on. I learned a lot from him.. a lot of what I don't want in a relationship! I am glad we dated though because it was a good learning experience.
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
Sometimes we fall for someone our opposite, we are overwhelmed by what they have and what we don't have so we thought we are falling for them. I'm glad that you atleast were able to date and know what will work and not. culture differences is a big issue really,no matter how much you love each other..
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@xiuluoelly (1224)
• China
29 Jul 07
How counts as a love wrong? If loving the wrong person is not two people together, how can the love of the people?
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
hmm i'm lost somewhere, if the person you love does not love as much as you do..and would ask to be freed..can you set the person free and love from a distance?
@madzie09 (278)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
Well as what they say, Love is not blind it is the lovers who can't see. I've fallen in love with the wrong person a lot of times. Some are what we call puppy love but it isn't love really...I guess I was just attracted with their looks before and thank goodness I've learned my lesson that it isn't the looks that are important but the heart of a person. Well, it has to be a man with good heart and a presentable look for me. And good thing I found my man, the one with good looks and wonderful loving heart...then I'm sure he's the right one for me.. :)
@punlonnjack (1308)
• United States
28 Jul 07
No I think I found my soul mate.We have had are problems. But he does love me and I love him. I wouldnt want to loss him thats for sure. My lot friends have heard my problems and probable think Im carzy for saying this but I think hes right for me . I always talk on here about the bad stuff but never the good stuff. We do support each other when things get bad. I have grown so much and so has he. thats what life is about when it comes to love I think is growing together.
@punlonnjack (1308)
• United States
28 Jul 07
me and my husband tend to think alot alike lately and we share everything.My ex got involved with another man after i left him havnt seen him in years.Although ive been curious in finding him for no other reason then to see how he is doing.
@hearts_melodies (78)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
Me? yes so many times that why I have been hurt so many times too. But I'm not giving up, I know one day I will find the right one for me.
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
do you always fall in love to every relationship? Or somehow among them, there's one you truly fell in love with?
@Mondoh (147)
• United States
26 Jan 08
Once upon a time....
In a galaxy far, far away...
I was younger & better lookin', I found out Satan wears a blue dress...
I fell, She slept w/my best friends... Guys I'd known 4 10 years! Got my cable turned off, had my phone disconnected & somehow talked me into giving her the keys to my car when she left... My kind of girl...
Something they don't teach U in Sunday School...(C Kinison)
Becoming older & hopefully wiser, I would like 2 B w/someone who could have anyone she wanted, but 4 some stoopid reason, she chooses me, & 4 some stoopid reason I choose her... Ultimately it's a choice...yours...
Hope this helps...
AC
