I made a mistake, acted without thinking
By BlueAngelRS
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
Canada
July 27, 2007 12:13pm CST
I realize I did something wrong I mentioned another MyLot members name in one of my discussions...Please disregard that discussion...why are people so insensitve is the discussion...I realize I made a huge mistake that I can't erase and I feel deeply sorry that I acted before thinking names should never have been mentioned...
It was my first day and I felt attacked, harassed and feel like I'm being stalked...I thank all the people that came to my aide when this happened with not even knowing me...But it's a drama production I would like to see put to rest...Again I admit I made a HUGE mistake so be disregard and not respond to that topic of why are people so insensitive???
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6 responses
@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
27 Jul 07
Honestly hun it is against mylot guidelines to mention another members name yes, but at the same time I understand why you did it. I am well aware of the situation of which you speak and I feel so horrible that you had to go through that!
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
27 Jul 07
thank you hun, and it's okay that I went through it I have had alot of support and met alot of really nice people at the same time..That is why I made this post I want to put it behind me and hope the drama of it all ends here you know what I mean?
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@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
27 Jul 07
Yes, I know what you mean and I would like to see the drama and abuse go away as well! Good luck, and hopefully it's done and over with!
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
27 Jul 07
I couldn't agree more...Who needs to act out drama when you can see it at the movies is what I think...
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@maii_instik (133)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
It is good that you are clearing things in public. and that you admit that you have made mistakes. It is a good move hard to do but a good move. You are sensitive enough to clear it up...
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
28 Jul 07
thank you maii...Tha is sweet of you to say..yes it has help me put the experience behind me and move on
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
27 Jul 07
Sweetie it happens so stop worrying about as I have noticed that things have been removed out of your Discussion and as you say forget it now you had a bad start which I wish you didn't but you held up well
Love to you and a big Hug
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
27 Jul 07
awwww thanks gabs and yes I guess this was just away for me to put it to bed so to speak as I noticed there were still quite a few responses to what had happened and I was trying to think of a way that the drama could stop you know loves to you too Sweet hugzzzz
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@omer_ahmed_tabarik (1057)
• Pakistan
28 Jul 07
Let's forget that. Now, you should get over it think, that you never did that. You may contact mylot staff in this regard, if needed. I think, we all comit mistakes, so, it ain't a matter that we shouldn't forget to forgive one another. The name that you mentioned, please, you could say sorry to him/her. He/she might have gotten hurt maybe because of you. He/she might be an old member and would have thought it was bad of you. So, on your part you should say sorry and forgive her for her insolence.
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
28 Jul 07
Yes it is forgotton now and I have done just that I have told MyLot..The reason I chose to put this topic up was I wanted the drama to end...Until now the matter was still playing it's role so to speak...This was my way of getting people that came to see my topics to disregar the other or it wouldn't of ended you know what I mean? I feel in some ways I owe her an apology for that..But also she owes me one too...As she came down pretty hard on me on my first day and I felt attacked but that is water under the brige now...thanks for your advice
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
28 Jul 07
You are new here and are going thru some trying times. You got attacked and reacted as many of us would. I saw it all unfold . You had a huge backing. I think you are worrying to much. Most everyone understands. You had a very bad start. Chin up and move on. Read thru other posts here and respond and put this whole incident behind you. Your experience was not the norm. Im sure all is forgiven.
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
28 Jul 07
awwww hugggzzz to you sid..I guess I posted this but I come to realize not only was it against mylot guidelines but I felt it the only way to stop the drama you know what I mean that I finally be left alone...It's actually from the great response and the wonderful people that helped me with it that has helped me come back because there are wonderful people out here such as yourself smiles...
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@Nanette99 (219)
• Canada
27 Jul 07
I don't think you should be hard on yourself about it. It was your first day, I am sure you did not know all of the rules yet. I am new, too and I don't know all of the rulses yet either!
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
27 Jul 07
thank you for that...And yes with it being my first day i was unaware of all the rules...But I also realize my mistake and I'm willing to take responsibilty for my mistake
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