Making a choice at Love
By mizcash
@mizcash (685)
Canada
July 27, 2007 11:57pm CST
I need your help on this topic, as it's been a dilemma of mine and I need to get it clarified. Can a person be truly be in love with two individuals. One in a passionate way and the next in a way because the individual as been there and will always be there(to a point) kind of love. They are both wonderful people and the choice seem impossible to make. Can a person live a double life base on loving two individuals. It seem very selfish I know but until you find yourself in a situation like this you never know how heart wrenching it is. I came to the conclusion that it's the feeling of being in love that I am addicted to. I think maybe I think that being in love with one person is not enough.
2 responses
@ifinallyfoundmybaby (1742)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
yes it is possible that you can be inlove with two individuals. i've been there before, and yes you're really gonna be in a delemma but it's normal. if you don't want to suffer further, you just have to choose one. the one that you would miss most in 2 weeks, that's him. but you really have to be carefull.
@cybermom45 (196)
• United States
28 Jul 07
I suppose it is possible to feel two different kinds of love for two different ppl, but it is very selfish to deny all of your love to either of them. Passionate love is very exciting and the always been there love is stable and secure feeling. Ultimately we would like to have both in one person and until you can I don't really think of it as
a life long truly being in love kind of love if that makes any kind of sense. I also think maybe you are addicted to falling in love, just as I am. It is such an exciting,heady feeling, but it fades into a comfortable safe love that you can count on. Which in itself is very good, but sometimes feels boring. If and when you find the right person you will know being in love with one person is enough. Believe me.
