What will you do if your bestfriend having an affair to your boyfriend?
By ciades
@ciades (1623)
Philippines
July 28, 2007 12:11am CST
oh my!! i cant imagine. what if? what will i do? how will i react to my bestfriend? will i get mad at her? will i kick his face off? joke! i am not that bad. i think i will ask her first and then try to analyze the situation and then before i will decide to settle this matter. you? what will you do? and how you will react?
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5 responses
@19ewf84 (461)
• Austria
29 Jul 07
.but than there are people who say "the best friend" if he/she really is your very best friend is more worth than a *lover*...
but I guess thats very different and difficult..
you cant always do what might be right 'cause your feelings dont let you... if u know what I mean..
gaaa.. my english is so bad..
@hearts_melodies (78)
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
Me I will just confront the two of them. I will try to talk to them sincerely. If my bf loves my best friend more than he loves me then maybe its right for them to be together. I will accept it even if it hurt much!
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
28 Jul 07
My best friend and my fiance both know better than to do something like that. If they were to have an affair though, it would be the end of our relationship, and of my friendship with my so called "best" friend.
@tantal25 (838)
• United States
28 Jul 07
i will be really mad to both of them... i dunno... i can't tell what to do.. maybe even if they asked for a chance to explain, i'll let them... but i will really broke up with my bf... imagine, with all the girls, its my bestfriend????
i guess i'll be alone from that day on... no bf, no bestfriend..
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
29 Jul 07
I've actually had this happen to me...My sons father left me....Then he started dating a childhood friend of mine...At first I was so mad I thought how could she? We were already broke up at the time but there was one night I invited her over for supper She stood me up..No phone call nothing..Then to my surprise I found out why she was over spending time with my sons dad...At first I did everything in my power to keep my son out of that and i was so hurt and angry...But then after all that settled I realized we have a son together and I don't want to set the example to treat and be a cruel person to someone that has hurt you...The hardest part of it all is that I tried to keep an open friendship with her for the sake of my son..But with every corner it was like she was trying to throw it in my face that she had him and I didn't..How much she was falling in love with him...Then they got engaged and she showed of her engagement ring it was a complete mes lol...But the show is on the other foot now..She left him...And after that we gained a really good relationship and this August we will have been married a year and have another child she turned 14 months on the 26th hehehe funny how the world works..They have a son together as well so she now knows what I was going through..But I'm not the cruel type like she was to rub it in her face she chose to leave him...But she is remarried so doesn't really matter...
