a word of advice from you.....

@camary (21)
Philippines
July 28, 2007 4:15am CST
i had a relationship with someone, he is divorced but still i living with hi children and ex wife, his reason is that he cannot leave his children behind because his wife is not capable of taking care of their children, he is fraid that his children will not be taken care properly, his ex-wife got pregnant by his boyfriend,so his exwife had a daughter now out of wedlock, nd they live in one roof minus the bf of his exwife, i cannot take no more of the situation so i decided to brek it up with him, he wanted to move out of the house but he has nowhere to go, he cannot rent an apartment because its too expensive, so he says, i dont have an idea how does reltionship with husband and wivw after divorce because i am not in the u.s. its just that i feel its reli awkward that he still lives with his ex wife nd now he is living with his exwife new born, although i love him so much and he loves me too much s i love him, i decided to end the relationhip, i really am hurting but i think its the best thing for the both us
2 responses
mindyja25
@mindyja25 (180)
• United States
29 Jul 07
Well it sounds like you made the right choice, but with that being said I would maybe be friends with him and see what he does with his life if he still tries to get out with out you behind him. I do believe everything happens for a reason this will make you both stronger and if you two are suppose to be together it will happen. Maybe he just needs sometime to get his life in order some.
Willowlady
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
29 Jul 07
It would have been very big of you to be able to develop this relationship and maybe have lived under that same roof. Odd as it may seem it could have worked if you were the right lady. Having said that if he used that excuse for not moving out then I wonder why unless for medical billing they divorced for benefits. Also not a good situation to be involved with. The pain probably comes from the time you spend cultivating this and not even started that relationship in the first place. Good luck. You deserve someone that can concentrate on you and only one and any kids that you might have.