I feel sad today... are you?

no i am not. though my relationship with my boyfriend broke up,i find my self not that sad. i am finding myself back. i have come to know, everybody lives without a partner.

I feel sad to hear your state, but i would say, that if you already know that on weekends, you are most likely to be alone, then hey! change and turn around a new leaf, go out, have fun, make new friends, do things youve not been able to do during the week day. If your husband is always going to be out and busy in his own friends and world. so should you. Why sit and cry about things? LIfe is too short to hink and brood so much . Yes mylot does help, and friends and people are always there for you, but why not make new friends and move around. Don't let all your happiness be connected with your husband alone. And don't worry much about the stars, they keep changing, think and remain positive.

My boyfriend works pretty much every day so I am alone until he gets home (usually around 3 or 4) and I don't really like it. I appreciate having my alone time, but I get bored and lonely, too. My star hasn't gone down from a 9 yet, but the number out of 100 has been dropping slowly lol

I visit myLot whenever I am sad too. I force myselft to respond any discussions and it helps. One time my rating went to 7 star... from 9 star. I was so sad that time but it's going back to 9 now. ~mar

I'm sorry your feeling sad. Do you have a friend you can go see or maybe have come over and have lunch with you?? Why don't you go out to the mall or to a coffee shop and enjoy some quiet relaxing getaway time. Just a suggestion or two hope your day gets better.

No I' happy. Sorry to hear that you're alone. Do you play games online? You may want to find sites like pogo and gamesville and play bingo or other online games and make some new friends instead of just being on mylot.

Don't be sad my friend he will be back later , we are all here for you and if you are like me the time just flies in , I love it here and I am always found tapping away ar the keyboard , I only put the laptop down in the evening if I am really interested in a TV programe and they are few and far between , Do not worry to much about your star sign , they are nothing at all to do with My Lot admin nor are they anything to do with payments , they are only because other my Lotters give you a + or a _ and they can go down one day and up the next , take care and have fun xx

Forget about the star rating. It is ridculous that we have them. You are not alone, you are amongst others who are sitting on their arses in front of the computer too! I chose to sit here all day rather than take a chance with the weather not cooperating. Hubby is making dinner, bonus for me! YOu put a smile on that face and stick your tongue out at that star. Huggers to you.

Any chance of going with your husband and friend next time? When I go to the pub with friends the girls come too and have a lovely natter. I suppose the bottom line is that at least he comes home to you - many husbands don't. My wife has such a busy life of he own - golf, tennis, part time work, fine arts society, church flowers, charity work - I have to book ahead to do something with her! haha I find it hard to understand people being bored. I have so much to do and never seem to catch up. I can only spend a few minutes a day at myLot as you can see from my small number of posts after 7+ months here. Get out and do things people! Do sport, hobbies, community work ... the list is endless. I think the best marriages are where each person has their own things to do most of the time and then when you do things together it is fresh and special.

Don't you have a friend or relative you can get together with, fab? Men can be so clueless. As for the star, I wouldn't worry about that. They give and take at their whim.

Hi fab! My happy days are during weekends, its a family day for us, and a 2 whole day rest for a never ending job. Try yourself enjoy mylotting so you wont get bored, mylotting or internet surfing makes you not feel alone and bored.Good luck!! Enjoy yourself...

I can understand. I just rated you postive so maybe your star will go up in time. It seems they fluxuate all the time. I can relate to feeling sad. When I am alone for about 1 hour I am happy after that I get sad also. But I don't have kids so it is quiet here all the time.

I am so sorry to hear you are alone, but you have got us to talk to. I don't understand why your star rating dropped, I mean, you just got it..I am just glad you are here to talk to and who needs a star anyway, right? My initials are TEN so star or no star I am a ten, and you my friend are a ten in my book also..Here's to a better day..*smiles*

Weekend Blues by the sounds of things, maybe you should try contacting some friends and going out and doing girlie things and leaving your husband at home by himself

our myLot stars go up and down. so, don't worry about it. it doesn't mean you are not as good as those who have 10 stars. you always and will be a clever woman! well, good for you that you're in myLot now. you can spend your most boring days here and you'll notice that after a minute of logging into your myLot account and started reading and responding to some discussions, you forgot about being bored... and you are starting to just have fun! so, just enjoy your every day. and your star will soon rise up again... soon! anne

I am not sad today, I am just a little bored, but I will be doing something other than this in a few minutes.

once again on week end !! ooooooooly and the next oooooooh....i feel already sad by listening this ...i mean weekend without ur love ones !! come on .but dont worry u will be happy may be he would probably brought u some sort of present or gift ? or may be he will talk abt nice things when he will come back .....?? one piece of advice ... dont be sad :) ask him what he did and how he enjoyed there tell him that u were lonely so that next time he will probably dont left u alone :) be happy