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I believe I would confront her with my husband and ask her to prove it , also who is she accusing you of cheating with I have seen so many people like this.. Ask her for the information but have your husband with you who are you seeing ,when , how, usually when these type of people are confronted they buckle.

Wow that is one heck of a dilema. your neighbour doesn't sound like the nicest person round infact she sounds like a bit of a head case, something must have happened to her in her life which has made her the way she is butyou can't let her ruin your marriage. Sit down with your husband and talk it all over explain that you havn't cheated on him and never would do such a thing to him and then explain to him what your neighbour is doing to your other friend as well and if he's any kind of decent husband he should understand you and accept what you have said, you can then bounce ideas off each other on how to takle things with your neighbour. If you are fearing for your other friend it might be a good idea to take her aside when your neighbour is out of the way and explain what is going on then offer your other friend a place to stay with you so that she can get out of your neghbours place and then maybe suggest that your friend takes a break and goes to see some family as it might do her good. I don't know if any of that will help you at all but i hope it will. good luck.

She may well deny it, but I would confront her. How dare sdhe make up lies to tell your husband. Even if she denies it, she will knowthat you know the truth. After yiou have confronted her, dont ever speak to her again, & ask your hubby to not ever speak to her either. She must be a bit weird, if she goes around breaking up marriages, jealous as well, perhaps.

Aargh what a friend. She's not happy in her life so she is going around destroying others? i don't know if she would be my friend for long. I'm not sure if there is anything you can do but confront her with your husband, even still she may deny it. The way i see it is, if you and your husband know that she is full of crap, then I would probably stay the hell away from her. If you can get your friend to stay with you guys or go somewhere else, then that would be good for him. She might just succeed in ruining his marriage. What is her problem? is she a loner? is she married?

i do not think there is any use in confronting someone like that. she seems like she believes she is doing the right thing breaking up people's marriages. maybe you can expose her for what she is whatever media you have at your disposal. when people (community) start pointing fingers at her, then maybe (i mean MAYBE) she'll change. you confronting her will most likely motivates her more since there is "something happening". good for you that the only thing you want to do is to "confront her". thats the least i would do.

Hmmm i would see this as something that i can relate to. ma'am your idea of confronting is brilliant and i believe that this is the right thing to do. But here's what ive learned from a friend together with somethings that i have experienced. -The truth is good. But sometimes it hurts... it really hurts. - So you nedd to learn to say the truth with love. Say it in a nice way that the person wouldnt bang you up with the next thing that she would grasp in her hands. - And while your saying it try to stay cool and dont get your voice too loud, like singing in a karaoke bar after a hard break up. - Getting angry is fine, its normal for a person to get mad. Its like the reflex that you execute whenever you get your hand hurt, it is normal. Even Jesus christ himself got angry remember? But just remember to not fall for cursing and breaking the person's heart while doing that. Well that is as far as i can remember, i hope i am able to help you. =)

ahh not again seems like you ve been got in the same trap as me the same thing happened to me once of course i was not married he was my bf so it was not that doubt for me but i stiil cant get out of that mess .. oh god iam helpless .. i dont know how to say..

Hopefully your husband trusts you and is not giving this lady's story alot of weight. If you were to confront her, I would suggest that you both confront her together. That will put her on the spot which she deserves to be. This lady is obviously not your friend and is definitly not your best friend. I would break off all ties and ignore her even if she is your neighbor. She sounds like nothing but trouble.