Loving from a distance.

Philippines
July 28, 2007 6:34pm CST
Have you ever experience being in a relationship that is so sweet at first but then it ends with a break up? if so, that sounds hurtful, right? maybe you would not be able to move on with your life. or it seems that it's him/her you'll always thinking. or the days are not worthed without your love by your side. or you realized that it's him/her is only your true love. no one is there to comfort, love, and cheer you up. hmm, that could be real love. what hurts the most is seeing the one you love in another's arms. are you going to fight for your love and be daring to say that "no arms can ever hold you more than i do". then, you'll try to prove your love for an acceptance for a second and true intentions? or are you going to give up and just spend some time loving from a distance?
4 responses
myeganda11
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
Oh yeah ive tried to fight for the love I have for the person.thinking that it's all worth it to lose my pride and self respect.but later on i got tired and one day, just decided to let go and love the person from a distance.life is not fair, love is true when you can set the person free. i realized it doesn't matter anymore if the love i give is reciprocated,as long as i know in my heart I gave it all..now im happy loving from a distance, i live with the good memories that was left of me.
kiluamelai18
@kiluamelai18 (63)
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
well, that's good. you have just shown how strong you are. as they say true love waits. have a little faith. someday, you'll have your match made in heaven be sent to you.
JBrulez
@JBrulez (663)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
I can't imagine having a relationship with somebody that is away from you.. I think it will not be applicable for me especially that I'm a demanding type of lover.. I mean I just want my girl to be there for me whenever I need her.. I think I cannot handle a relationship that is fueled only by text messaging or calling.. For me it is not enough,, there will always be the doubt in my mind that she might be doing something I don't know.. And vice versa thats the way she would think.. It's hard to maintain such relationships but we cannot measure the limitation of love so I think it may work for some..
vhinjc
@vhinjc (342)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
i have been in the same situation... it might sounds funny but i fought for it... you may think that i am n0t the kind of person who will do that when you will see me in pers0n... but honestly i did fight for it... i almost lost myself fighting but i did not gave up... well it hurts everytime she tells me to stop fighting but i am determined to win her back.... in the end i won the fight and she ask for an apology and forget everything that has happened.. now i am still with her enjoying each passing moment we're togther...
dreamy1
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
29 Jul 07
It's been 10 years since I broke up with my first love and I'm still crying over him. It was all my fault that it ended and now I am miserable. Breaking up with him was the biggest mistake of my life and all because I thought the grass was greener on the other side but it wasn't. I tried to get back together with him but it was too late he already had someone else. He moved on a long time ago but I can't. He's thousands of miles away now but there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about him. Even though I've had relationships after him, I've never loved them the way I do my ex.