how will you know when your BF/GF has fallen out of love with you?
By aikastacruz
@aikastacruz (187)
Philippines
July 29, 2007 12:29am CST
is it really love afterall? or maybe its just true that sometimes love just aint enough?
3 responses
@sr0415 (1140)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
Hi aikastacruz! We're young! ENJOY! *hehe* There are times that we thought we're in love because we are in love with the idea of falling in love? Ayt? Being love makes us feel good. It inspires us. It motivates us. It makes us go the extra mile.
When you say it's love, it is when you are willing to sacrifice everything that you have for that person. (Will you?) It means trusting the person with no doubts. (Can you?) And lastly, accepting the other person from head to toe, in an out.
God bless, aikastacruz! :)
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
thanks for that nice thought.. yea we're young and i know i shouldve enjoyed every minute of it.. i dont have time for regrets yea? maybe itll be just a long long wway for me to feel the contentment and happiness i wanted to.. but for now, im just gonna live my life alone yet happy and satisfied with who i am and with what i am now... someday someone might knock and accept me for who i am and not someone who'd want to change me to who i am not.. thanks.. good day and godbless my friend!
@cutieissa (413)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
love is often not enough, you should learn this early on. trust and respect is more important. without it, love will crumble. no matter how much love there is in the beginning. you will know that your loved one does not love you anymore when he/she has stopped caring for your needs. they dont enjoy spending time with you anymore, would rather have fun with other people. they wont value your ideas and dismiss your talks as nonsense. believe me you'd know when he/she has gone cold on you.. =/
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
yea respect and trust is more important than love i guess.. coz if u dont both, i guess its not love after all.. i often say to myself, maybe i myself is a mistake thats why i do a lot of such, a lot of wrong decisions in life.. unfortunately im me... cant do anything about it.. i just have to live my life and be who i wanna be.. for no onw could help me and no one would except ME.. iv felt all the things that youve said.. maybe youre right.. i knew, but i just opt not to believe.. =(
@dayong1113cn (311)
• China
29 Jul 07
i think u r a cut girl ,and u r very young.so don't worry about love,just enjoy your young life.
