"Allegations of Homophobia"

hello, that was nicely said. where do u find the words? I said it in my previous post and will say it again..I hate it when people try to lable everything and to try to give it a name. sometimes i feel like detaching myself from everything in this world and take it off like i take off my clothes. it's just too much signs and billborads on everyone's back... :)

hello my friend..i would have appreciated it if you would post your comment as a REPLY. would have been easier. anyway, back on track: if u catigorize/label this, after what you have said, ESPECIALLY after what "sarahruthbeth22" and the kind ppl above have kindly stated, it makes ANYONE who disagrees with the gay lifestyle, peacfully even, HOMOPHOBIC. That would include "ME", as i cannot watch 2 men or 2 women kissing. It's just how i feel. I don't essentailly go and tell them not to do that. or go burning down their houses or throw them off cliffs. I'm not their god 2 judge or do anything to them. and I simply don't hate them. I just cannot tolerate CLOSE, REAL CLOSE encounters or come on's by persons men/women who i am not intrested in. The general idea of my discussion is denounce the term "homophobic" as being offensive or bad. and to say it's "okay" to feel that way.

I think I'm homophobic, as in I can't handle even watching two gay men kissing, or holding hands, but then I was molested as a child by a man and then my wife was with a man and they had two kids and then he told her after 6yrs of marrige that he'd always been gay, yet I've worked for gay persons and as long as they don't try to pick me up then I can handle them, its just when they are kissing and trying to teach my kids about the "gay world" then I get a little fired up.

Hehe.. no problem you are always welcome :) I have to admit that not only one girl had said the same when asked about the reason of becoming a bi or lez, but one of the girls I know answered me a funny/sad answer -she was in love with a guy then suddenly turned into a lez and said no guys forever- she said in our community it's easier to meet a girl do whatever you want with her without anyone noticing or asking questions.. I think this is pathetic and really sad at the same time... Thanks again :)

well hello there, Regarding your comment, I must say it's a very deseperate , if not a shallow, decission to make. I think there is more spite involved than anything else. You know like getting into relationship soon after a break up just to piss off your ex or something. Girls WILL hurt as much as a man would. there is no difference. everyone is just the same. I appreciate u dropping by, always nice to see you :-)

nice of you to drop by, you don't that a lot lol. those hyper "irritable" people can cause a lot of pain and cause a stir and turn people against you. like you have no idea. or you do!! thank you for the response.

a very moderate response and right to the point. Thank you so much. Well said too. i DO hate it when the "label" everything like that.