No respond

July 29, 2007 4:19am CST
Why don't anybody responds my discussion?It makes me very confuse.Am i a bad writer or nobody likes my discussion?As I am new at mylot.com,I don't know very much about it.So I want to know that is there any format of writing discussion or any style that can make my discussion more efficient or it is all about the contants of writing discussion? It makes me happy when I get respond form anyone,though I have got only 2-3 responds from my 11 discussions.I think it is true for all mylot friends that respond makes them happy and encourage them to write more and more.So I request all mylot friends to help me by giving your valuable concept.
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15 responses
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
29 Jul 07
It's likely just because you are new and haven't made many friends here yet. I know when I first started in January I got few responses to my discussions, so I focussed on responding to other people's discussions for a while, and made a lot of friends that way. And now that I have tons of friends, almost any discussion I start gets a lot of responses, and I try to respond to many of my friends' discussions as well. It's just a matter of taking time to get to know people and get to know your way around the site, that's all. I'm sure once you've met more people you'll have better luck with discussions. =)
3 people like this
29 Jul 07
Thank you very much for your advice.Now i can understand the reason.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I'm sorry apuroy. I would never intentionally ignore anyone. I jump around all over and just randomly post on topics that grab my attention at the time. I am going to check out your posts right now and if I see anything that maybe might help you, I'll let you know.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
30 Jul 07
Ok ...I read thru your discussions. They were all very very interesting but alas, i know so very little about Bangladesh that for me, those topics would be read throughs. Now this one, on the other hand, you are talking about YOU and your feelings...couldnt resist responding. When I first joined, someone gave me this advice....She said, respond to other peoples discussions and get to know them a bit before starting your own discussions. It helped quite alot really. Most everyone here is really friendly and I'm sure that you'll find yourself fitting in comfortably in no time. Don't get discouraged.
30 Jul 07
Thank you very much for your advice.I like your advice very much.Reading your response ,my confident is come back.I think you have a great skill to encourage people to do some thing good.
@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
Don't get too disapponited, it's the same thing when I was still new here in mylot, I remember I was afraid to start discussions thinking no one would respond, so what I did,I participated with most of the current discussions and responded as many as I can. made new friends to familiarize them with my username. It will get better for sure as you get older here. Happy Posting!
30 Jul 07
First of all I want to thank you for your response.Reading your response ,I can understand that what I have to do now.
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
Don't be upset with the turn out of your discussion. It so happened that you're just new here and hope soon you're be able to gain more friends. Moreover, maybe other mylotters seemed not attracted with your posted topic. We also experienced that when we are new like you. Just be patient, request more friends and keep on posting valuable topics.
30 Jul 07
Thank you very much for your response.Now I can understand the many reason for no response.
• Australia
30 Jul 07
No one replies to my discussions usually either except for maybe one or two. I was told to get into peoples discussions with answers and make friends. I some how got one friend and have no idea how. good luck
30 Jul 07
Thank you vrey much for your advice.
@3lilangels (4639)
• United States
30 Jul 07
im new too,i just started 6 days ago,and you just have to respond to as many discussions as you can,and try to write as many but make them interesting.i wish you luck.
30 Jul 07
Thanks you very much.I think your advice will help me very much.
• United States
30 Jul 07
no problem,any time.we all got to start somewhere.
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
I think you should be a quality discussion, like think of the things that people do in general, like money making sites, job, problems, happiness. You look in general. As far as being a member here, i once find it difficult, but as you go along you will learned something in building your discussion. We all started like you, so don't give up. If we can do it, I am sure you can also.
@shinjiao (1457)
• China
3 Aug 07
Hi,my friend,you needn't to be so disappointed.Just keep on working and try your best to make more and more users notice you.Start discussions actively and post responses actively.Participate in discussions which you like.Then you'll be known by others. Hope you have a great day!
@youless (112497)
• Guangzhou, China
30 Jul 07
Please don't feel sad. I also still have some discussions that nobody responds. You are new in Mylot, so I think perhaps you don't have a lot of friends here now. Try to have more friends and then they may like to repy to your discussions if they are interesting or meaningful. I would like to add you as my friend so that I can reply to your discussions:)
@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
29 Jul 07
Don't dismay...when I was new here I also got some zero to just 1 or 2 responses..I guess this is what is known as the 'birth pangs' a transition...but later as you gain more friends and will get the knack for discussions, you will notice the responses increasing. Don't get discouraged yet...just continue to respond to other user's discussions and gain more friends...that would be a good start...good luck.
30 Jul 07
I like your word "Birth Pangs".It fell me happy that same kind of problem you have faced and you also get rid of it.Your word will help me a lot help.
@kkittu (426)
• India
30 Jul 07
i think mail reson is you are new, when io was new i got only two or one response and now 4-5 responses, i read many discussions and they say if we rwesponse others then they will response/........... you also should response those who responsed in your discussions.... make more friends on mylot as much you can........ and keep alive your discussion(doing so, your discussion will restarted and you can get more responses) rate+ or - to those who responsed you, add a comment to every response,when ever you add a comment to respon se ,your discussion will restarted and shown on main page.... i guess these will help you to get more responses...... if you need help dont hesitate to ask for help... Kkittu:)
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
Hi apuroy11! You're right, I too get happy whenever I received comments and responses from my discussions and get sad when only one responds to it. I started a month ago and it's really hard for beginners like us. However be patient and you'll soon get to know more people here. In the meantime, try adding more friends to your list and as much as you can try particiapting in their discussions, this way they will know you and will return the favor by responding or commenting on your discussions. Maybe if you don't mind, you can add me to your friends' list and whenever I can I will support your discussions. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
your right when like me i'm also new in this site i recently joined mylot maybe around 12th of july if i remember it right at first i responded only to discussions of others and its only last week i started my own discussion. i get few responses and one among the discussions i started didn't get any response at all up to this point, but that's life at least i have shared my own thoughts and feelings and if no one is interested into it yet hopefully soon someone will drop by my discussion don't loss your patience.
@yesah65 (157)
• United States
29 Jul 07
I, too, am new here, but the day isn't over yet. As my youngest son keeps telling me: "Chill out, Dad, and take a deep breath." Darned if he isn't right.I hate it when he is right! Just write and enjoy yourself. Things will get better with time.
30 Jul 07
Thanks,i am taking a deep breath.From now i want to write and enjoy myself.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I'm sorry apuroy. I would never intentionally ignore anyone. I jump around all over and just randomly post on topics that grab my attention at the time. I am going to check out your posts right now and if I see anything that maybe might help you, I'll let you know.