Do you always leave a tip when you go to a restaurant??

United States
July 29, 2007 11:22pm CST
Do you leave a certain percent, leave what ever change you have, or just plain get up and leave??
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• United States
30 Jul 07
Having been a server off and on since I was 16, I absolutely tip !! Unless you work at a really high-end restaurant, the "base" salary for servers is really not very much. Servers make their living by the tips they receive. Correct me if I'm wrong, but my understanding is that in Europe, servers get paid a living wage, so they don't need tips.
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
30 Jul 07
Hello SuckerUpper! I tend to leave a tip anywhere between 5-20% of the original cost depending upon where I am and how I read the serving person. I usually go to dine out here but I usually did in my country of origin. I have given more than normal too sometimes. If the serving person seems depressed or in some kind of problem, I'll give more tip than normal. Similarly, I give more tip in smaller restaurants than in the established bigger and posh ones. I would try anything that can boost morale of the working people there. They are usually very ill treated people and that makes me sad. I have also sometimes offered them to join and occasionally when there wasn't high time, they joined me. And believe me they have much to offer and often you can find great people in them. Listening to their perspective about life can be very interesting. Offering and lending a listening ear often makes them happy and I like doing it. So, for me tip is something beyond a casual matter. I must say here that I don't like giving people more than what they deserve. They are already paid but mostly they are paid much lesser than what they deserve. So my tip is just to compensate for their services which deserve much more remuneration than what they are given.
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
30 Jul 07
First a mistake; I said "I usually go" which should be "I usually do not go..". SuckerUpper, they are people like us or perhaps more valuable than many of the people who go to restaurants. I am really positive, when I say that sometimes you can find a great person by chance. I love to try these chances. Usually I am not an outgoing or extrovert type of person but I feel greatness n some people and try to find out what good they have in them. It applies to waiters too. And believe me that I have found many in them. I don't do it to bribe because the very people I pay more are usually the ones who do their job honestly already. Many do not accept my invitation and decline politely even if there is no one else to serve there just because they are not allowed. But sometimes they have joined me and I found this experience a fulfilling one.
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
6 Aug 07
Thanks for the best response, SuckerUpper!:-)
• United States
30 Jul 07
Wow, is it okay for me to applaud you right now?? I have never had a waiter sit with me unless they were already a friend of mine. I find it very interesting what you do =]
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@GardenGerty (160978)
• United States
30 Jul 07
If I eat at a sit down restaurant, I leave a tip. I do not go unless I can afford to do so. The servers make less than minimum wage and rely on tips to make a living. If it is an especially good server, I leave a good tip. If it is a new server who is having a bad night, I leave a good tip. If it is a lazy server who just goes to the back and never offers refills or anything, I might leave a bad tip, and write on a comment card as well. By the way, management and corporate offices do care what you write on the comment cards. I have even gotten phone calls from corporate offices, and all one spring I got really special treatment, because they figured out I had left good comments. Those are almost as important as the tips.
• United States
30 Jul 07
Wow that's really nice of you, and it mustve been really awesome to recieve good treatment =]
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@kunalvijan (3411)
• India
30 Jul 07
no, i dont give a tip or anything like this.... thnx
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• United States
30 Jul 07
Hmm, you must never have been a server....
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• India
30 Jul 07
hey common then y we r paying taxes..??? tip is a kind of bribe
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• United States
30 Jul 07
Here in America, people get paid LESS for jobs like that, I doubt you could make a living here without tip unless you had more than one job...
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@AmbiePam (93939)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I know some countries don't practice tipping. That is just not their way. But it is in America, and I do tip. Always. I just think if we can afford to go out to eat, we can spare a little bit for tip. UNLESS, the waiter/waitress has been unexplicably rude and hateful. But they would have to be really hateful for me not to tip. I just know if it were me, I would appreciate a tip in a business that doesn't exactly make you rich.
• United States
30 Jul 07
Yea I totally agree with you. And in a job like this you get paid BELOW minimum wage because yu are essentially working for tips! I know that in places like Europe they get a paid well so there is no need for tips, y'know?? But since I live in America I tip (sorry, forgot to write down my opinion ha)
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@eden32 (3973)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I almost always tip, and I tip well if the server was friendly & did his/her job well. I've worked for tips before, it's hard & I want to show appreciation for good service. I can think of two occasions when I didn't leave any tip. Both times the service was horrible. Once the waitress kept asking my partner if his meal was alright, if he needed another drink etc- but ignoring my requests. Well it was his birthday & I was treating that night, so I refused to leave a tip. A little flirting is one thing, being friendly is how they earn their tips. But out & out ignoring the other diner is unacceptable.
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• United States
30 Jul 07
Although I have never been in a position like this, I have family and friends who have had jobs like these, and they HATED it, but Im also glad that they did a job like this because NOW they have an appreciation for all the hard work they had to do, and THOSE are the people who leave the tips, y'know?
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• United States
12 Sep 07
I always tip 15%. If service is great I leave 20%.
• Canada
1 Aug 07
I avoid leaving tips because it is expected of me. I don't like tipping, because it is not my problem to pick up the slack for the managers. If they are not paying the staff enough it is their problem. People need to start paying the servers well, so that tips can go back to being for exceptional service, not just because they are expected, regardless of service.
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@cyntrow (8523)
• United States
29 Aug 07
I think that's a sick way of thinking and a cop out for being cheap. Servers need tips to support their families. Selfish is what it is.
• United States
1 Aug 07
Hmm, I never thought of it that way. I like the way you think (Although I still will pay tips since it isn't that way)
@ma_belle (1357)
• United States
14 Sep 07
I always leave a minimum of 15%. Rarely I have left than that, in the event of really bad service. I will leave more than 15% if I get good or exceptional service. However, I do tip differently when I travel. For example, I recently traveled to Europe and didn't tip as much because its not expected there as much as it is here. In the US, tips make up a large percentage of a waitress' income, while in Europe most make minimum wage and do not always depend on tips for income.
@twilight021 (2059)
• United States
1 Aug 07
When I do tip, I always tip 15-20%. And I almost always leave a tip. The few occassions that I don't are when the service has been particularly bad. Once a group of friends and I went to a vietnamese resturant in out town and ther services was awful. First, the server told us they didn't have a menu item that every one was eating (fresh spring rolls)...now that would have been ok and I could have accepted they were out of the dish, if the people who came in after us didn't get to have their spring rolls. Then a friend ordered an ince cream desert and the waitress left it still on the counter and brought my friend basically a dish of melted ice cream. When we said something about it she said, that's how it's supposed to be. We only left a 10% tip. But to make matter worse when we were leacing she came over to count the tip and said, "What? Only 10%." Very loudly. By hem the whole resturant was looking and I had to explain how her poor service effected her tip. It was horrible. I just wanted to get out of there.
@brian_s (570)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I almost always leave a tip. 20% is my starting point, and it can move up or down from there. If the service was very good it will be 20% or perhaps up to 25%. For decent service (OK, but didn't refill my drinks quick enough) I give around 15%. One time I was actually insulted by the server, so to make it known that I didn't appreciate it, I gave something like 13 cents (thinking that would be worse than no tip). If the waitress flirts with me she usually gets around 25%.
@stealthy (8181)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I just about always leave a tip unless there is a good reason not to and even then I just cut it down instead of leaving nothing. I leave 15% to 20% usually, which is, to my understanding, the customery amount in most of the restaurants I go to.
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• United States
30 Jul 07
Yea it is and that reminds me about one thing. Restaurants that have tip INCLUDED in the bill, I know that it is good for the waiters and such but Im not sure I like it, because then it doesnt matter whether or not I am WILLING to tip and I dont get to choose how much I want to tip unless I want to tip more, y'know?
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@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
1 Sep 07
Hi!Usually, when the server is nice,friendly and makes a fast service, I leave the change. And if I really liked the service, I sometimes add more change. BUT, if the server is just quite the opposite, I won't be leaving not even a single penny for them.