Do you prefer to love or to be loved by one ?
By loverboy3236
@loverboy3236 (82)
India
July 30, 2007 1:40am CST
Hey guys which of these do you enjoy and prefer the most
1) To be loved by someone?
or
2) To love someone?
Tricky and thought provoking isn't it. My option would be 1 cause I personally believe that sticking around with people who love you is far more better than being with someone whom you love.
So what's would you prefer option 1 or 2 ?
5 responses
@Hgateway (204)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I truely belived we all need to be love and love someone. Of course, it would be nice if that goes two directions, especially in a marriage. But, often in time one will take it for "suppose" to and forgot to appreciate the other half. That's me and have been doing so over 10+ years.
If I got a choice now, I would rather to have someone to love me more.
@loverboy3236 (82)
• India
30 Jul 07
Ok Everyone loves to be loved i agree with that and thank you for your response.
@flowerfactory (30)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
Everybody wants to love and be loved of course and I know lots of people wants to be loved in return. Sure it is easier to be loved than to loved.
flowerfactory
Philippines
@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
30 Jul 07
well hum you have to love to be loved... Am i right or wrong? You can be can love someone sure but they don't need to be loved back.. How ever both are nice feelings.. Wow really that really got me mixed up.. I think i still am though lol... Have you ever heard "to love is better than to never love at all"? I read that some where but can't remember exactly where from...
@loverboy3236 (82)
• India
30 Jul 07
You tried your best lets wait and see who can answer it in a expressive and in a good way, cause i am more confused than you are lol. thanks for responding ?
@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
Before i used to just love a person without him loving me in return, i would always say its unconditional love but still i realize i was never happy doing that thing. I felt more hurt than happy loving the person.
So i would choose option number 1! Its always a great feeling to be love by someone and its up to you to love them back. It is easy to love the person back because you feel you are love.
@yandong (25)
• China
30 Jul 07
option 2
though it's hard to choose,i still choose the latter.referring to my experience before,i think both to love and to be loved are bitter sweet.and i prefer to love, which may mean to give without being paid.i still stick on my choice.my feelings should be under my charge.and i'll be active searching my love!
