who would you choose? the love of your life? or the life that you love?

Wow. I Know What You Are Talking About. Ive Been There And Done That Before Myself. In The Relationship I Had, I Noticed, When I Did What I Liked, The Woman Disagreed With It. I Personally Went About My Way And Did What I Wanted And Made Up Later. I Also Believe, That A Relationship Should Be 50/50. This Means, You Do What You Like And The Other Person Goes With The Flow And Vice Versa. In My Relationship, It Just Ended Because She Was Bored And Found Someone New And Cheated On Me. When Friends Always Ask Something About A Relationship, I Tell Them To Follow Their Heart. Your Heart Will Never Let You Down In The End. Also, From My Experience, Ive Learned Not To Stop Doing What I Love For Someone Else Because It Just Ruins The Fun In That Activity. So Personally, My Course Of Action Would Be, To Choose What I Love To Do. You Will Definitely Find Someone Who Likes Doing The Same Thing As You. Things Like That Take Time, But Itll Happen. I Wish You Well, And If You Ever Need Someone To Talk To, Im Here For You! I Hope I KindOf Helped. If Not, Contact Me Again, And I Shall Keep Talking About This Subject With You Confidentually.

Well....This is very tough one. Definitely it's hard to choose either both. Sometimes you feel like you love your life most but the truth you need both. You cannot live without your love but you want to be success in your life because you have your own dreams..... You don't have to choose either one but you can choose to have both.

How I wish it was so easy to find the love of your life in the life that you love. But that's not true in my case. Unfortunately I have to choose one. I think it's more difficult to find the love of your life, so that is what I choose. Then I'll find a way to continue doing what I love.

Hi, this is a tricky one but i think each one of us have somewhere or the other gone through these phases. Yes initally it i what you say love, when we are into a relationship, and all is well and a bed of roses and slowly the problems arise and we start finding faults in each others things leading to each one feeling suffocated in the relationship. Each one finds faults in what the other person is doing and there starts a series of misunderstandings and fights. That is the time i think that we leave the love of our life and tend to choose instead the life that we love !

The life that I love, definately. If the love of my life would really love me as much as I'd love him, he would never make me choose between him and things I enjoy doing. He might not like it but he would have to learn to live with it if I'd be that important to him.

That is a good quesion. I have that problem right now! My BF and I get along great...as long as we are doing what HE wants to do. LOL I am a family person. I love to spend time with my family. His family is not so close...so naturally he doesnt like to. He also cant stand to stay at home. During the week, I work alot so when I get off, I like to come home, make dinner and do some housework so I dont have to do much on the weekend when I am off work. So we dont see eye to eye...but have come to an agreement that he will do his thing and I will do mine and we will meet back at home. He is coming around now though, and actually likes to go visit my family, and is starting to stay home alot more now, especially with gas prices being so high. LOL

My fiance and I realize that we will be at different places during different parts of our life together. For now we are in his place because he has a job, and family who needs him, but some day he will find a different job, and things will clam down here, and we will live in my country. Neither one of us has to give up our lives for the other, because we will work together.

i think is the life that i love

Choose wath you love ,and love wath your choose!!Life sometimes just like this ,full of choose !! Good luck !!