How do you think of the people with your surroundings?
By perseverance
@perseverance (16)
China
July 31, 2007 6:58am CST
Sometimes,you ask for others to do you a favor,but find you has asked for them several times!As for others,you barely speak with them or simply under followed position due to low capacity compared with them. Now,the question is how to take use of those big guys?
Probably, you have to balance well, for your close friends,don't bug too much. On the other hand,better relation with those guys,but also keep a certain distance with them until you make sure it's feasible to have such casual friends under your control.
Okay, share your ideas about this. let us gather more wisdom of life.
Have fun
1 person likes this
2 responses
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
4 Aug 07
Unfortunately I do not have any body surrounding us. It is a commercial place in the east direction where my brother runs a shop, behind it is my residence and behind residence is again a road. On north, there is a tall commercial building where there is no window towards my house and on the south, My house building wall prevents seeing any activity in the south direction. So no neighbours and good heavens. I get a lot of my relatives pouring in my house and so also friends and that is how times goes without our knowledge.
You posted a comment to my response and if I further comment, that may not reach you, but reaches the man who introduced the topic.
@perseverance (16)
• China
4 Aug 07
Thanks for your response, really interesting.however got me a little bit dizzy.hehe...
Have a good day.
1 person likes this
@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
31 Jul 07
I never...and I mean NEVER ask anyone for favors. Of course someone is always asking me for something and it's usually one of my kids but since I'm always there for them I don't mind and will do almost anything for them.
@perseverance (16)
• China
31 Jul 07
Hi ctrymuziklvr, it's funny to say as what you said... Ah, maybe, I should substitute help for favor. I am sorry to let you confused with my words. Errr, note: even small things,for instance,you need some classmate who has the convenient approach to get what you want,but you feel not comfortable to ask for help from him/her.In that case,if you just walk long track to get it done,probably I would say it's low efficiency,right?
Best wishes for you and your family.
