Do we get penalized for putting discussions into the wrong category?

I'm not surprised you've never had a discussion deleted! You are always polite. I would think that you don't have an enemy in the world!

Thank you for your kind comment. I'll put you in touch with my enemies so you can tell them that. lol. Actually, I can't think of any enemies that I have. I've never been in a fist fight. I don't get into serious arguments. I've never had anyone really hate me. Wow. I have led a sheltered life. I better get out and experience the world before it is too late. lol. I think a lot of it is because my parents never expressed anger, not even toward each other. I think I grew up thinking showing anger was wrong. In the long run that was not good for me, because the first time my wife got angry at me, I didn't know how to handle it. That wasn't supposed to happen. She has taught me a lot about handling anger. I needed that.

By nature I'm a very open person especially when it comes to showing my emotions. But, my spouse is not. He had the same issues with me for awhile. He could not understand why I wanted to confront issues head on and deal with them. His attitude was that we should brush them under the rug. Now, I am becoming more calm, since having a baby. I don't want to show that type of confrontational attitude especially in front of my child. She picks up and mimics everything! I want her to be a calm person. But, I suppose it will help that I teach her how to deal with others who are not so calm. Thank you for your insight. Very much appreciated. You brought up some good points I had not considered. As always, very good advice! I have much to think upon.