lights off? or lights on?
By aikastacruz
@aikastacruz (187)
Philippines
July 31, 2007 11:00pm CST
men and women have different preferences, i think there are men who find it amusing to see their partner with the lights on while doing it.,. while women find it too vulgar or something thats why they prefer lights off. how bout you guys, what do you usually prefer? i can deal with both., ehehehehhee oops
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10 responses
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
2 Aug 07
I like the lights off... With the lights on, its too glaring and unromantic...
For me, i think that even with the lights off, we can be able to see each other, through the silence of the night... Isn't that more romantic?
Well, thats just a small thought on my part... Of coz most pppl differs... N i guess my guy likes it better with the lights on which i have absolute no idea why...
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
8 Aug 07
Yeah, I understand how you feel. I think lights off is pretty romantic. But a little light (night light) wouldn't hurt, it could even cause more kinkyness with the imaginations flying around. *LOL*
Did you ever ask him why he wanted lights on?
=)
Hm.. made me think. I need to ask him what he wants. *LOL*
Good luck!
Have a great time posting!
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
I go lights out, to have a more exciting feeling!LoL
It's one of the best way to explore new things, a sort of an added pleasure for me and my partner. I'm more wilder when lights are off, as I'm a bit hesitant when lights are on!;)
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
i strongly agree to that.. ;p i find it more passionate and much intimate as well with lights of.. feels like theres something more than what you expected.. ;p haha, (mah bad churi people)
@stealthy (8181)
• United States
1 Aug 07
As a guy I prefer the lights on but not for the reason you gave for why men tend to prefer it that way. I can't speak for all men of course, but I prefer the lights on and think this is true for men in general because we are very visual when it comes to arousal and, therefore, like to see our partner. Touch is also very important, too. It certainly is not because I find it amusing as you say. Having the lights on and being able to see my partners beautiful body adds to the pleasure.
@aikastacruz (187)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
its just my opinion anyway.. i nver knew you guys are that visual when it comes to arousal.. good day
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
3 Aug 07
I can deal with both too. *LOL*
It depends on the mood though, there are times when we want on there are times when we want it off.
But in general, I think it's true that men are more on the visual side when it comes to arousal, plus they like to hear things too. *LOL*
=)
@nikkiwith (1074)
• Australia
8 Aug 07
I think that in the beginning of the relationship when you are just getting to know one another and each other's quirks, then i feel more comfortable with lights off, but after you feel comfortable then lights off are ok with me :)
@altair_dip (807)
• India
3 Aug 07
lights on..... i would like to c my patner.. and what this about beeing vulgar.. what vulgar in watching ur patner & urself.. thats a very funny attitude..
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
5 Aug 07
My partner and I both prefer to have the lights on most of the time when we are making love. To me it is much more sentual this way, I love watching my partner, I think he is very sexy, it turns me on. I also love to look into his eyes, this makes me feel closer to him. Neither one of us is ashemed of our bodies, we love trying new things. I also love to watch ourselves in mirrors too.And you can not do this with the lights out.
@dayong1113cn (311)
• China
8 Aug 07
as you said,i like turn the lights on ,but my girlfriend like turn the light off.some times,we could find a midlle my for this peoblem.we turn on a weak light or a candle ,and the lihgt is very very obscurity.in fact the feeling and emotion are important,but sometimes changing enviroment is a good way to have a different feeling.so sometime turn it on,sometime to turn it off.you will have wonderful feeling.
