being in love, will hurt!
By angemarie
@angemarie (65)
Philippines
August 1, 2007 9:38pm CST
I know relationship is hard to keep but even gets harder, i would not give up because if its hard to keep you it will be a lot hard to find again.
No one can go back and make happy beginning, but anyone can start from now and make a happy ending. Hoping someday, somehow and somewhere that have a day that stars right and ends happy even if its is harder.
You can not blame anyone can not blame cry one just because you were hurt by your love one, the only thing you can blame is your heart ask your heart, why is he? your heart can not answer because your heart can love only.
Do not love to much, do not exist and do not give anything and everything. So that you do not hurt.
5 responses
@jacklywang (32)
•
3 Aug 07
I agree with you.how much you love and how much you will hurt.Some have said that whenever you love someone,you should love him or her 80%,and the left 20% you should love youself.So when you hurted,there are still 20 percent love beside you.
@candiec2005 (828)
• United States
2 Aug 07
If you have that mentality when you get involved with someone new, guess what? It's NOT going to work! When you start a new relationship you have to let go of the past (meaning, forget about those people you were with that hurt you). Let bygones be bygones and love the person you are with like you've never loved before. Treat them the way you want to be treated because otherwise, it's not going to work. Mark my words.
Of course, you can't give your love to just anyone. First, let this person prove himself to you and show you that he really cares and when if he does and you fall in love, love him with all your heart like it's your first time. I'm only saying this, because I've realized that this is the only way a relationship can work.
@rinaaus (1201)
• Australia
2 Aug 07
I do not agree with you. Love doesn't hurt, people hurt about love. Love set you free, people try to tie each other base on love. Love is giving, people just share (when sharing, you keep half and just give half). Love doesn't regret, people blame for what they don't have from love. Love is happy! If you don't feel the love like that, it is not love! it is possession, and when you can't get it, you are unhappy, sad and blame for everything!
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
I believe that a relationship is hard to keep if it's on a "one-way avenue". I mean, if two people are in love, they both definitely want to make each other happy. I'm pretty sure they don't want to hurt the one they love. That's what love is all about, isn't it? I also think that it's good to love yourself more than anyone or anything else. Give what you can give, but never, ever neglect yourself. The hurting usually begins when you realize that you gave and gave and forgot about yourself. After all the pain I went through with my ex, I considered love as taboo. Something I would never go through again. But I was wrong. I realized that being in love doesn't always hurt. In fact, for me, after all the pain I had in the past, being in love today is the most beautiful thing I have ever had in my whole life!
@spoiledsister (73)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
Yah, you're right. When you try to love someone, don't love too much. Don't give everything to him/her. Try to love yourself first.
