Do you sometimes think of cheating your partner?

@maean_19 (4655)
Philippines
August 2, 2007 1:10am CST
You are attracted to someone not your current bf/gf. You get along well, until such time that you can't control yourself telling him/her that you like him/her. Would you cheat your bf/gf for a new found love?
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@redmike (153)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
would you cheat your bf/gf for a new found love? - no I wont do that... I can control my feelings when that time comes. actually I've been into it for so many times but my feelings to my girlfriend is not fading.. though I might say im cheating... sorry...
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
3 Aug 07
At least, you admit it that you cheat, though the feeling does not change or still remains. You are just being honest, anyway. That's normal.
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@redmike (153)
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
yes i agree, but sometime that f!#@n conscience bothers me alot...
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@nigtvamp (102)
• United States
2 Aug 07
No. Attraction is a perfectly normal emotion for humans, even those of us who are in relationships. We've all had a crush at some point in time or another while even in a relationship. It's been my experence that the people who say they don't are lying. You can't just turn off that part of your brain as soon as you get into a relationship. However, it is important to realise the difference between simple physical attraction, crshes and strong feelings. That's what diferenates us from animals (well, most of us, at least). I am of the personal opinon that if feelings develop for someone else that is not your SO, then you should talk about it with them and try to figure out where they came from. When that has happened to me, it was due to me being unhappy in my current relationship and my unconcious mind was looking for something better than what I had.
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@redmike (153)
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
yes, people who say they don't are lying they're cheating their selves.
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• Pakistan
2 Aug 07
No I always Cheated with my friends
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@zeloguy (4911)
• United States
2 Aug 07
True love is when I'm walking down the street and see a nice looking woman and say to my wife 'wow she's hot' and she looks over and goes yeah she is good looking. There is a trust there that goes beyond looks, it is a bond that holds two people together. If that is not there in the first place then the marriage is doomed from the start.
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