Looks are only skin deep, it's the inside that counts?

Well there are certainly different ways of putting that I think that was a terrible thing to say and yes you are right Beauty shines through and I have seen your Photo in your Profile and there is nothing ugly about you Sweetheart

To be honest hun I still to this day can't believe he ever said that to you. I agree that who a person is on the inside shines through. We have been friends for over 15 years and if I really thought you were that horrible of a person their is no way we would still be friends. I think you are very pretty and a great person hun, and that totally shines through!

This bloke was certainly tactless but he was giving you a lovely compliment too. I don't think inner beauty always shines through except maybe from someone's eyes and not everyone is able to see beautiful qualities in a person. Soem don't go any further than someone's outward appearance. You should really get to know someone before you think you know them just by their looks, good or bad.

Hi, well dont get disheartened, as looks are decptive like people say and some call you ugly or not attractive, of course its natural to feel hurt alos, but again, if we know what we are we should not letit effect us too, isnt it, why let it hurt and pain us. And actually what each person feels about you or me will alwasy differ too isnt it, if one says you are ugly the other may find you beautiful, as beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder isnt it.

ok, im a guy, and i know what we guys are thinking. If the guy your dating tells you its your inside he cares about, he's bullshiittin, screw him!! i mean dump him..... you are always attracted to a person,then you will ask that person out and get to know him/her.....

it is the inside that counts

If someone said this to me I would be very hurt and wonder why they were with me in the first place. Its the same as when someone wants to end a relationship and says Its not you its me, yer right..what a load of crap!! Obviously it was fate that you were not meant to be together and from this you were lucky to meet your husband. This other man definately does not know how to communicate and most probably he's own insecurities were turned onto you. If someone chooses to make such remarks its only to make you feel as bad as they are feeling. Take with a pinch of salt my friend, they just ain't worth it!!!

The matter part is from both the side. It is also necessary to good looking form inside by your heart and beautifully looking form outside the part.

Aww sweety that must have felt bad but he may not have meant it the way it sounded! I know that I am no oil painting looks wise but I think I have a pretty beautiful inside! When my partner and I got together a woman at work (you now they type 60 going on 23 and caked in make up) looked me up and down and said " but he is so good looking!" I just said " I know and it is me he loves - weird isn't it"? and laughed but I felt so hurt, when I told him about this he just looked at me and said I was beautiful - you know the saying sweety - Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! xxx

BlueAngelRS The guy was really rude, and badmannerd at best, and you did the right thing to dump him, what a jurk. And yes, beauty shines through, but there are people that are blind for it and go only after the shining Zirconias instead of noticing the unpolished dimanonds :) Think of it this way - if it wasn't for this guy's mistake and blindness - you wouldn't have found and married your present love, who does appreciate the rough diamonds way more (as he should) instead of the shiny Zirconias, which are worthless on the inside :)