Its Been Two Months and My Boyfriend is Talking Marriage
By AcousticSoul
@AcousticSoul (1309)
United States
August 2, 2007 4:09pm CST
I love him and each day growing to know him makes me love him more. yesterday we started talking about marriage and he told me that without a doubt that he was going to marry me one day. he asked me for my ring size and that seems to be the topic of all our conversations. yet we have been only been together for two months do you think it is too soon should we wait a year or so before getting engaged
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@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
6 Aug 07
wow I should really just go for it hun... you know every one else is saying its a mystical illousion but your reponse makes sense because we do love each other and it seems hes living for me.. if you know what I mean.. Im going to go with it and if God says turn around then I will... He only knows whats in store for me
Thanks
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
6 Aug 07
you know what happens when you wait to long, then you start net picking over nonsense. no one is perfect and there are going to be things he does that make you nuts and the other way around. once you start nit picking you end up alone. now i am not saying married him tomorrow but there is nothing wrong with getting engaged right now. you to sit down then and talk about your values, children, family, The Lord, money, those are always the deal brakers. and if the two of you can be on the same page about these things, then i say marry this man before the end of the year. God Bless the both of you.
@spoiledsister (73)
• Philippines
3 Aug 07
i think that it is too soon for you to marry him. Try to know a lot of things about him first. Marrying a person is not easy. Just imagine you will live with him forever and you barely even know him.
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
6 Aug 07
I agree but isn't it also true that you can be with someone for 20 years and still never really know them.. I new a couple who got married after 10 years of being together and still there was alot she didn't know about her husband like his other wife and kids...
@magnet (2087)
• United States
6 Aug 07
I don't think it's too soon. I have been in long term relationships and I already knew that they were not the one. I only dated my husband for about 2 months and knew that he was the one before he even asked me 3 months later. We were engaged within 7 months and I stayed engaged for a year so that I can have the time to plan the wedding.(It does not have to take that long to plan a wedding,my sister planned hers in one month)We have been married now for 7 years and we are still happy.
@jothis (518)
• India
3 Aug 07
Felt strange Why you need one year to accept your life patner? Find out whether the intention of your lover is sincere or not. As two months passed you may got the character is adjustable or not. That is the main point to be considered. And take a decision. Dont worry. If you love him deeply the same thing you will get from him also. All the best
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
3 Aug 07
i guess it reli depends... some couples get married with jus noeing each other for less then a yr... but dun let it be a impulse feeling... u get what i mean?
meaning to say, on impulse, things might not be very right... someday... touch wood, hope it wun come true... things might fall apart...
i guess my advice is... when u feel that u reli love need and cant live without him... tt is the day u should marry him... of coz its better to get to know each other better... afterall u only noe him for two months? or longer?
jus a piece of worthless advice though... =)
hope it helps...
@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
2 Aug 07
i knew my wife less then 12 days and we got married in Tokyo, Japan,,the american embassy by the Okura Hotel..love is not on a timetable..we have been married happily since July 12, 1985 and I was forty and she was 33..if i had my way i would have met and married earlier as every day in every way it gets better and better
I am not saying we don't have our differences and get mad or lose our collective tempers..but when you get mad..make it just one at a time..don't both get mad at once..my son went with a girl over 5 1/2 years and their marriage did not last one year ..also with my daughter..she went three times..this was not my first marrigage because my first wife had mental problems and has had six failure marriages..make sure you are not crazy .
