should i wish my ex girl friend on her birthday
By binny29
@binny29 (1527)
India
August 3, 2007 1:01pm CST
her birthday is on 13th of august but i am confused should iw ish her this time she has been showing me attitude and tries to show off with her new bf but i never mind ......but should i wish her
7 responses
@crystalhailie (147)
• United States
3 Aug 07
If you talk to her i would say happy birthday but i wouldnt call and do it because she is going to think that she has control over you. Especcially if she has been showing off her boyfriends and acting like that i would not she is expecting that she is doing all of that on purpose dont give her the time of day find someone who really cares and move on people that do that are not worth it and all i mean she is doing things to hurt you to me dont let someone get the best of you i am sure you are a really great guy that deserves better.
@tombiz (2036)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
We have the same opinion here. It think there are more girls or women who are much deserving of this guy's attention and time than his ex-girlfriend. Of course, there is nothing wrong with greeting somebody a happy birthday most especially those people who have been a good part of our life. But then the girl has a great attitude problem.
So I just the same like you, just forget it. The problem is if this guy has still a feeling to the girl. otherwise, it would be better to just ignore the girl. Had the girl been just a little bit sports and continue to be a good friend to the guy, I would see no problem with that.
Maybe we should be the one to greet the girl a happy birthday.
Happy birthday, girl. May you have more years to come. And please be kind to your ex who is even wishing you well.
Thanks a lot.
@ayris77 (1301)
• Malaysia
4 Aug 07
ex is stand for extra ,so ex girlfriend is extra girlfriend..Hehehe,,just kidding!
Anyway you can wish her too and also give her some present.But must tell your current gf!
If you dont want to wish,I wish for you.
"Happy Birthday to you binny29 ex girlfriend"!
@tombiz (2036)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
Oh, you must be a very kind person to think of the birthday of a girl who belongs to your past already. Anyway, there is nothing wrong with wishing a good happy birthday to an ex whom I think you still consider as your friend. I think this should have been an ideal situation for both of you, while the relationship could be gone, friendship must be maintained at all times.
However, I think the girl has an attitude problem. She must not have yet overcome this episode of her life and she could not manage the situation well like you.
So I just suggest, to forget it. She could be thinking that she still has some influence over you if you will wish her a happy birthday. Of course, not unless you are still entertaining an idea of winning her back.
She is just a waste of time. I am sure there are a thousand girls more appropriate for you. Don't give her that attention anymore.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
3 Aug 07
I think it would be lovely for you to wish her a happy birthday. It shows that you are a nice person and that you are pleased that she is doing well in life. It would be wonderful for you to stay friends with her. You are showing a good attitude and respect that she has a new boyfriend.
