why does one fall out of love?
By mkcallejo
@mkcallejo (318)
Philippines
August 3, 2007 8:06pm CST
How come some people who once in their life fell in love with a person, suddenly feel that they don't love that person anymore or their love for that person changed?
7 responses
@xmichx (109)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
Maybe one may fall out of love simply because they are not right for eachother. Maybe they thought they were in love out of curiosity or because they just want to feel the feeling of being in love. The change of a person's feeling may be form by discovering the other person deeper there are many factors on which why relationships won't work.
@wackwy (95)
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4 Aug 07
For me, it's the constant hurting that causes one to fall out of love. You get to the point of saying, that's it I have enough of this. That's why there should always be nurturing of the love. If you're married, you don't just be complacent about the love that you had. Day in, day out, always do something for each other to continuously keep the fire burning.
@essytssy (125)
• India
4 Aug 07
misunderstanding and jealousy is one thing htat ruin realationsjips.
never be to jealous of someone else when you know that you own her/hi . if you let get in between, without a doubt, your relationship won't last.yes,.....
@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
There are many factors why people changed some examples would be because they get attracted physically but then they don't like the attitude. Change is constant and some people cant cope with it if their partner changes for better or worse. Others commit mistakes realization that he/she doesnt deserve the other or meet someone better as a partner. Maybe two people arent meant to be and its natural to fall out of love to find the one rightfully meant.
@wackwy (95)
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4 Aug 07
Love is not merely a feeling. As Steven Covey said, love should be "love the verb", not just "love the feeling." Meaning, we should put our love in action, nurture the relationship. We can't just depend on the feeling to last forever. It's not as if we exert so much effort in loving someone but we need to do things to make the love last. In the first place, if we really love the person, the act of nurturing becomes spontaneous.