"Are u afraid of commitment, responsibilities of like having kids?" ....

@anjoks (2080)
Philippines
August 3, 2007 8:48pm CST
.. i had a long chat with my good old friend last night. He is one of those people who dont like responsibilities when it comes to having kids. He's smart, got a great paying job but i still dont get it why he feels that way. I was like a nun making sermons to him but .. i still lost the battle of debating with him regarding that matter. Guys like him are sooo aarrrrggghh!! ... How abt u? If you are one of them, why?
2 responses
• Malaysia
4 Aug 07
....yes I 100% agreed with your good old friend's reasons of not having marriage because some of the married couples told me about their marriage problems at least one in a month....the worse part is comes to the stage of annulment/ultimatum. So how could we take it...
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
Yeah u got a point but that really depends on the individual how one handles relationship/marriage well you know. . . It would be lonely for my friend living alone when he gets old, got no family of his own. You know what i mean? Anyway, take care. (",)
• Malaysia
4 Aug 07
I got what you mean my dear friend, I admire you as you've your good family, lovely hubby. That's what me jealous about you....Hopefully one day there will be 'one love' to me as well. Anyway great thanks to you for your re-responding.
@stealthy (8181)
• United States
4 Aug 07
No, I'm not afraid of commitment even though I am divorced. I am single and looking now. Not only would I like to be married, but I want to have children; I have none now since my ex-wife didn't want any. I'm still a believer that it can work with the right person and if you try.
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
4 Aug 07
Ohh its the other way around huh? .. Sorry abt that and its nice knowing men like you having that positive outlook in life. Well goodluck to you and i hope that someday u'll have what u wanted. Take care. (",)