How would i get a lot of responses?

I really am not sure what to say because I myself do not get much responses. The only thing I know is you need to be friendly and make your friends know that you are an active friend. I do this by responding to their discussions and in return they would reward you by responding to your started discussions. Thats all I know so far.

i also posted that question sometime ago since i wanna know how other users manage to gain more responses. and these are their tips. i copied these from my discussion http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1221867.aspx webeishere (3410) 7 days ago I have yet to recive 100 responses. I think my largest ever was also near 70 or maybe 60. I can't really recall. I think it's mainly three things that help in this matter. First being a great discussion thats well thought out and well written. Secondly a large friends base also helps a LOT. Then the members reputaion as far as so called "popularity" in the myLot realm. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB!!~ juntech (1353) 1 day ago i tried putting a lot of keywordsand suddenly there is an influx of replies in my discussion...

I have been here a long time and I still don't know. I think it would help to be on the "top discussions" list and I don't know how that is determined. I use to think "top discussions" were the ones that already have the most response but that's not the case. I have seen discussions on there that only had a couple of response. If you find out please let me know.

Dear, please do not feel so dishearterned, you will start getting responses, if your discussions are lively and interesting. Try posting interesting and meaningful discussions. Also please try making new friends, who can contribute in your discussions, and vice versa. Best of Luck to you.