How will I cope?
By BlueAngelRS
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
Canada
August 4, 2007 1:19pm CST
I was talking to my mom on the phone today..My Grandma has been fighting cancer for the past two years..She has breast cancer had her breast removed a couple of years ago and has undergone lots of kemo and radiation treatments...She has now as a result lost her eye sight she can only see preferal vision...I was talking to my Grandma a few weeks ago she was waiting for an appointment to see the doctor to see if she needs another surgery..So when I was on the phone with my mom I asked her if she went and how it went..My Mom said not very good she feels my Grandma is not being treated very well and we are not sure if she needs another surgery or not..My Grandma is my best friend I'm so close to her..In some ways I feel closer to my Grandma then my Mom...I hope that I'm strong enough knowing her health isn't good and she could be passing on soon...I just barried and lost my baby 3 months ago now I might be loosing my Grandma..I'm out for sympathy or pity from anyone I just needed to talk..hugzzz all my friends, I appreciate being able to let it out...
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@sharonercastillo (888)
• Philippines
5 Aug 07
i really can relate to you..
my dad passed away almost two years now, but i still get to cry whenever i think of him..
as to your grandma, i pray she'll be ok....
you'll be ok to, mylot friends will be here to cheer you up
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@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
5 Aug 07
Awwwwwww hun I am so sorry to hear about your Grandma! I know you two are very close, and you just lost baby a few months ago. All I can say is I am really sorry, but know that when the time comes for your Grandma I will be here for you just like I was with the passing of baby. I believe in some ways the "vows" of friendship are a lot alike as wedding vows ... "In good times & in Bad" I will be here! You have my word on that hun!
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
7 Aug 07
yes hun it's been really hard..I know that when the time comes I will probably be a basket case..But I know that my Grandma will probably soon be in heaven caring for her Great Grandaughter and that does bring me a little bit of comfort..You will be the first friend I call when it happens that is for sure hugzzzzzzz
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@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
10 Aug 07
As I said you have my word that I'll be here! Just let me know whenever you need me. That is very comforting to know that her great grandmother will be there to take care of her in heaven! Love & Hugzz Hun!
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@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
10 Aug 07
That would be great if you could get out there to see her soon. I have been here for you quite a lot recently and I will continue to do so, so get used to it :P hehehe!
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