Is it a big shame or sorry for not having any experience of love???
@Ceciliacherry (181)
China
August 5, 2007 8:47am CST
actually, i am not so reluctant to admit that i haven't have a boyfriend so far,though there are many kinds of reasons. and now i'm a little of just ever having,just a kind of game desire. i don't want to get the real loved one,but i want one that can give me love-things which sounds silly. the emptiness of love make my attitudes and perspectives shift a lot. sometimes i got really sad and shameful for not having one before. isn't it a great pity, is it?
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@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
isnt because you dont have a boyfriend,you wouldnt feel/experience love at all..look at the people that's sorrounds you..your family,friends,and things that makes you happy can also give love that you needed.boyfriend is just an additional..coz if we have one,someone will give us the love and care that other cant give..you shouldt feel sorry nor shame if you dont have any boyfriend..feel sorry if the people that gives you love leave you and never give you love at all..
if sometimes you feel empty,focus on the things and people that makes you happy..and just be patient on waiting for the right one..maybe God is just bc creating a perfect man for you..
have a nice day!
@Ceciliacherry (181)
• China
6 Aug 07
yes,when you looking for love anxiously,peohaps you lose what you ignore and yet what is more significant than love like family, friends... sometimes,learn to cherish is not an easy task till we know how foolish we were. And i'll remember this sentense ---"haste makes waste", be good there to expect him!
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
yeah.i agree with you..some of us sometimes ignore those people who love and care for us..we try to look for love and yet we never appreciate those people who give love to us..
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
12 Aug 07
I thought it is a big shame when I was a student in a college, but now i don't think so.
If I pay more attention to my study, then I will have a good future, and now it is hard for me to find a high salary job. And the worst thing is that I don't have a wonderful memory with my first boyfriend. 4 years is a long time, and it is my best time and I waste it ......
Frankly, I'm very regret, but ... ... I'm looking for what i can do now.
So I hope you can have your own view.
@nokia6233 (937)
• India
6 Aug 07
you dont have to worry about it as its not that much......
but i would say you definitely missed out great momnets at this age....as it is always nice and a different experience to have a GF/BF.....
@Ceciliacherry (181)
• China
6 Aug 07
yes,something really lost,something that deserve happening in this age. A pity not coming across a guy at your best age.....T_T
