Would you ever help a gay couple have a baby?

Oh no! It is not hatred at all - it is true love! I indeed love people (gays and lesbians included), and just wish people would stop confusing themselves further and their sexuality! Talking about sexuality! Few days ago while waiting for the bus, I was opportuned to witness a quarrel between two gays: The male-acting gay is standing stone-faced, while the female-acting is talking like a female - fingers, waist and body movement all immitating a natural female - and crying like a child! OMG, what a sorry sight! Please, my dear men, stop such silly behavior (especially in public)! Such does not befit a man! If you are born without a womb, then you are a male! And if you are born with a womb, then you are a female! Brother, stop trying to be like a female! And sister, please, stop trying to act and look like a man with those baggy pants drawn down and wearing men's undergarments!

Interesting, Netsbridge. I know a number of effeminant straight men. They have no attraction to men. I know more masculine gay men than effeminant ones. Again, your lack of knowledge is showing.

I've found that most people who hate gays so much hiding deep inside their own closet.

Just like Wiccania your a sweet heart too. I would never ask anyone that I dont know to help Jay and I to have a baby. If I was ever asked to be a part of a gay female couple to have a child, I would want to get to know them first. Parent hood is not like having a pet, when you get tired of it you just give the child away. I would love to see a little James or Jammie running around. My mother would love to have another grandchild. Of course she would know that it would not be the old fashion way, hehehe.

Thanks you for your post. Well, if a child comes in to a gay couple's home as a babys, the child would see both guys as mom and dad. You know that is the reason that I would like the female that helped us find happeness to stay in the child's life.

I would like to first thank you for your post. I really agree with your comment. It is really sad in this world that prejudice people still have not change ways. People still use the Bible to support being prejudice. Mind you I am not a Bible thumper, I just don't like when people use the good book for something that is was never written for. I am not saying that you are doing that. It is just a thought at the time I responded to your comment. -Reverend James, Florida, USA-

You are so sweet to make that offer for your cousin. With all the children in this world looking for a loving home, I just feel that it is unfair for gay couples to be singled out and named as bad parents. I mean just last week on the news a month shot her son then shot herself. Would that make her a good parent? My lover and I have been together will be 8 year this Sept 27th. I am vary happy with him and hope if God willing that we will be together for the rest of our lives. If Florida, gay couples can foster as many children as they want, but when it comes to adoption for get it. Jay was adopted. And these people say that a child growing up in a gay home will turn out to be gay, oh, wait my partents are straight and I am gay. -Reverend James, Florida, USA -

Thank you for your post. I have someone that is willing to carry a baby for my lover and myself and ofcourse I would want her to be in the baby's life. I think that it would be the best for all involved.

I only wish the best for you and hope you can know the joy of having a child for yourself soon. One day I will get that joy. It is people like the ones who have posted in this discussion that make my heart full of joy that they would give so much of themselfs to help others find happiness. I wish others have a heart as big. Thank you for your post. -Reverend James, Florida, USA-

Gay people are born gay, so it is impossible to "teach" a child to be gay. All gay people of this generation have straight parents, yet the people are still gay so this theory makes no sense. Of course you are entitled to your opinion, but I wonder what Jesus would do. I think you might be surprised.

No no no no. You misunderstood me. I did not say that we should hate gay people nor do i hate them or anyone for that matter. And i did not say that because the parents are gay then the children would also be gay. I just said that according to what the bible says, homosexuality is considered a sin. I believe in the bible with all my heart so if it says that it is wrong, then it is wrong. You asked for an opinion and it was given. Obviously you wanted to hear people's different opinions so please dont get upset when you hear what you dont want to hear.

Ok, now let me see. In the bible it also states, Judge not, less you be judged. If is not up to a man or woman to judge what is right or wrong. In the bible it is a sin to eat shellfish (lobster, shrimp). But you don't see bible thumpers going after them. Oh, wait, it is a sin to eat a hoofed animals but people still eat them. I know many gay couple that do have children that are not gay. The state of Florida seem to think that it is ok for gay couples to foster a child but not adopt one. If anything it is straight people that have a problem with gays that are teaching children wrong. I hate not a sin? Please don't try to hide behind something that you know nothing about, ie the bible. -Reverend James, Florida, USA- Also a gay male. Sorry to everyone else I was so harsh. My God teaches Love not hate.

Netsbridge, that is a lie!! If you have found that all gays and lesbians you have talked to have been abused, then you have only talked with 2. 2 out of every 10 gay people were abused. Try again. You are wrong. Do a bit more research.

Oh, and it's not a different gender. Gay men are men and gay women are women. It's attraction. Furthermore, 7 out of every 10 hetero people have been abused so that shoots your theory all to hell.

Below is a copy of both of my comments. and they still counter yours. Netsbridge, that is a lie!! If you have found that all gays and lesbians you have talked to have been abused, then you have only talked with 2. 2 out of every 10 gay people were abused. Try again. You are wrong. Do a bit more research. Oh, and it's not a different gender. Gay men are men and gay women are women. It's attraction. Furthermore, 7 out of every 10 hetero people have been abused so that shoots your theory all to hell.

Thank you for your post, and congrats mommy. That is way I would want who ever would consider bearing a child for us would always be a part of the child's life. My lover was adopted into a loving jewish family (straight), I don't hold it against them. LOL! Kidding. I like to joke with him. He might read this post. But, love is love not matter where it comes from. I know with my brother's kids I am very protective. Just think how I would be with my own child.

Yes mystic the laws are still behind the heart and times. When it comes to the heart the law should have nothing to do with it. Jay and I are well to do and want for nothing when it comes to money and worldly things. If we hand a child, he or she would never want for anything and would have everything in the world. Like I have said in other posts, my brother youngest son comes down to stay the weekend with myself and Jay and he knows that we are together. But you see we do not show it in front of him only because it is the way we are. Cody even sometimes sleeps next to his uncle Jay when he gets afraid at night or will sleep between Jay and I in our King size bed. Some weekends he will even call his uncle Jay and ask him if he can come and spend the weekend with us. If some of these people that have problems with gay couples becoming parents would see the way we are with Cody they would see that some of what they hear is not true. - Reverend James, Florida, USA - P.S. If I ever found out that someone hurt Cody or any of my brother's or sister's kids they would find how much I would hurt them. The law would not even have to become involved.

Thank you for your post. My lover and I have someone that would love to surrogacy for us. I see my brother with is kids and my sisters with her kids and it just make me want to be a daddy. I get to take my brothers kids home with me one weekend every month and my lover (Jason) is so good with them. The youngest (Cody) loves to help his uncle Jay clean. It is so cute. One morning we get out of bed and he had a paper towel in one hand and spray wax in the other hand cleaning the wood in the house. The love to come down here. I would love to have a child to call me dad.

Thanks for your comment. I am sorry for your medical and I hope that everything is ok. I hope one day that my lover and I will have a child to call our own but for now we have our animals. And the kids in our community love us. However we have very strong rules about when they come over, for example they must call parents from our home phone to let them know that they are over at our house. We follow the same rule that the parents would have so they know now bad words or stuff like that. I am a kid at heart.

How are you tonight? I can understand that having a baby could scare someone. Not to try less'n your fear, but just thank how scared I would be. LOL! I have antiques to get broken. LOL! Kidding! Not about the antiques. I love children. You see a gay couple could cover the expence of a child but what a women gose thru they can only offer to be there for them.